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IssySueScottFairchild

Husband and wifey!

I pledge to honour, love and OBEY this man of mine! In the garden of our church we spoke such virtuous vows to each other. Dwayne promised to protect, serve and lead. To many the idea of a woman saying the word obey may seem old and outdated. But I think it shows our duty as wives to SUBMIT to our headships! On the lead up to our wedding I decided the flowers , music and attire while Dwayne continued to work. Our pastor discussed our shared love of family, faith and missionary trips. Truly I have found my soulmate ❤️

We bought the land and shack in Millwood Mill and Dwayne has been working every hour the watcher sends to make it into a home for us. It was tearful though as I said goodbye to Miss Issy Scott and hello to Mrs Dwayne Fairchild.

We are currently packing for our honeymoon in MT Komorebi and we are so excited to explore together. 😍

Talk soon

There are “different versions” of Mormonism. Just like there are progressive Christians and Fundies. There are more progressive Mormons like Brandon Sanderson, and on the other side you have homophobic Orson Scott Card, also Mormon. Both very famous and prolific sci-fi/fantasy writers.

Sanderson teaches at Brigham Young University; Card teaches at southern Va University. Both private Mormon universities .

Sanderson may not be homophobic, but the fact that he still has a foot in the Mormon world teaching at a university notoriously harmful for gay students… it’s bothersome to people. Mormonism doesn’t hurt him but it hurts others. There could be an argument for changing a system from within but I’m not going to get into that here.

I’ve been learning a lot from this ex-Mormon YouTuber named Alyssa Grenfell. While I did not grow up familiar with the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (LDS)…there’s quite a lot of religious culture i recognize from my own upbringing in an Assemblies of God church.

I grew up evangelical and many fantasy books were discouraged and sometimes banned. (C.S. Lewis and Tolkien were the exceptions). But in Mormon circles the fantasy genre is popular. Disney culture is popular.

And in fact, Mormon authors as it turns out are great at writing fantasy.

Look at the Mormon religion: there is magical thinking and mysticism and a in the afterlife people rule different planets etc

There’s magic underwear and secret handshakes and a magic rock in a magic hat that founder Joseph smith looked into to understand the secret languages to write the Book of Mormon etc etc….

(Believe me, I know magical thinking exists in mainstream Christianity. My point is, it’s a different “brand”. I grew up with the creation story being literal, and the coming Rapture )

The Mormon religion and lifestyle lends itself to fantasy writing.

Girls are taught to journal and be the record keepers of their lives and the events in her circle and the temple.

Side note: this is why there are many mommy influencers online/on YouTube; Mormon women are encouraged to be the record keepers of the family lore and they can do this through blogging/vlogging too. (See Ruby Franke and her 8 Passengers channel)

Girls are encouraged to only read romance (and not smutty romance but wholesome stories. For example, In Twilight, Bella and Edward wait for after the wedding to have sex.)

Boys are prepared for the mission field, and young Mormon men must go forth sometimes to a foreign land while his girlfriend at home awaits him “waiting for a missionary “.

Yes young women go on missions now (including YouTuber Alyssa Grenfell) but they are still not encouraged or even allowed to cultivate an adventurous spirit the way the young men are encouraged.

Girls stay home and write in their journal, writing a list of what she wants in her dream husband, and all the time yearning.

Boys look forward to the day they can be headship of a wife and then have as many children as possible, but first they can go roughhouse with the other boys. And then the mission field awaits and they might knock on your door. (Please note: be kind to Mormons at your door, they are very young and naive and trying to argue with them will only hurt them.) Sometimes they are assigned overseas, sometimes in say, Colorado.

Storytelling and writing is important for both boys and girls in the LDS church.

It’s interesting when you find out how much Mormon culture can blend into the mainstream. And it seems Mormon culture can give fantasy and sci fi authors a step up. And it’s pretty much always family friendly.

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Hello everyone, it's so nice to see that my ministry is growing 😊😉 so i thought i should do an intro post to get to know all you ladies!

My name is Dina Colbert and my handsome husband is Hayes Colbert, we have two beautiful twin babies: Huxton and Hadleigh and have just moved to Brindleton Bay (if you know any good churches lmk 🙌🏼). Hubby has his own business (something with computers i never understand it 😂😂) and I'm a stay at home mother to our handsome Hux and beautiful Hadleigh.

Hayes and I have been married for almost three years now, we met at a club 😖 while I was at university, Hayes was there hanging out tracts and I had just found out my boyfriend at the time was cheating on me with my own sister ! (the depravity of a worldly life 😢).

Hayes was the perfect gentleman, he stayed with me the entire night and invited me to his church the next day; it was love at first sight. We courted for a few months, Hayes was understandably worried about marrying a worldly woman but I quickly proved my love for the Lord and him. Now we live together, raising our children and any other children He sees fit to bless us with, under His plumbob.