#fem!dio

Putting these in order from what I assume are, roughly, least-to-most disturbing/triggering overall, including the details. Starting with the ones that have wholesome anecdotes and then getting... idk bad. Please note that I don't consider Disability or anything LGBT+ to be disturbing, but it's the other details in those headcanon paragraphs that are.

{ Content Notes: Transphobia, homophobia, ableism, self-ableism, endosexism/oppression towards Intersex people, pregnancy, pregnant while Transmasc, abuse, child abuse, stalking, domestic violence, smoking, substance use, suicidal ideation, eating disorder - no numbers, body horror, gore. }

{ Spoilers: Part 3 / Stardust Crusaders, Part 4 / Diamond is Unbreakable, Part 5 / Golden Wind, Part 6 / Stone Ocean }

Kakyoin is legally blind after the events of Part 3. His eyes only healed temporarily after N'Dour's attack, and then he lost his vision gradually over the course of two years. It got to the point where he uses a white-tipped cane, and sees shapes and colors without details, unless they're in an image that's blown up to be about the size of a wall in a small apartment bedroom. He draws and paints a lot more often than he used to, since he finds his new view of the world interesting from an art perspective.

Jotaro's wife, Vanessa Cantillo, is a woman from Colombia who moved to the U.S. to start her own funeral home. She was a mortuary student in Colombia to a man who was very jaded and irresponsible with the corpses he worked on. Learning that the U.S. as a whole isn't much better than that teacher with their approach to corpses and their perspectives on death actually just made her want to open her own practice even more. She owns a funeral home in Florida and also started a non-profit that helps low-income families have the funerals and send-offs they want, with a lot less harm to the environment.

Johnny is Transmasc. His father was absolutely horrible to him about this as soon as he found out. Nicolas secretly would let Johnny try on his clothes and would say he looked much happier in them. George was against Johnny riding horses from the beginning, saying it wasn't "lady-like," and had Johnny in ballet classes. Which, Johnny didn't dislike, but he certainly liked riding horses a lot more.

Jotaro is Autistic, and doesn't tolerate ableist bullshit from anyone. Also Autistic: Jolyne, Giorno, Shigechi. While Jotaro was in Morioh, through Josuke and Okuyasu, he observed how Shigechi wasn't being accepted by his peers. He became sort of a mentor to Shigechi and helped him to be more confident and self-accepting. Shigechi's death broke him, but he didn't really process that until after he told Shigechi's parents what happened to him. After that, he got back to his car, held back for as long as he could, and then broke down sobbing.

Giorno has asthma. He firmly believes that he wouldn't have it if Shiobana hadn't forced him to grow up in such a filthy environment, and if Shiobana and her new husband hadn't smoked indoors with the windows closed when he was a child. He told Bruno about this early on in his recruitment into Passione. He only had an attack around Bruno's group once: after the incident with the snake venom in Pompeii. Abbacchio didn't yet know that Giorno had asthma, but he recognized the signs of an attack from some of his police training: the death rattle wheezing, and the skin around Giorno's neck slowly collapsing around his bones like shrinkwrap. He quickly got everything constrictive away from Giorno's chest and looked for an inhaler and helped him use it. When the attack stopped and the rest of the group showed up, Abbacchio of course showed his relief with misdirected anger and cursed Giorno under his breath, hissing stuff like, "Why didn't you tell me, why the fuck was your inhaler in your goddamn shoe and not a pocket or something," but Giorno just had this grin on his face 'cause he knew Abbacchio was glad Giorno didn't die.

Pucci's father was abusive and homophobic towards him, as well as abusive to Pucci's mother. The first time Pucci truly stood up for himself against his father was when, one night when his father demanded him to do a late-night bible study session, Pucci grabbed the heaviest bible in his father's office and struck him so hard across the face that he broke his nose. Pucci had reached a breaking point.

Abdul is Intersex. As an adult, he doesn't really care what gender people perceive him as. His parents accept him completely, but that doesn't mean the world does. He grew up in a conservative society, and was bullied horribly in school (not just for being Intersex). People didn't like that they "couldn't tell if he was a boy or a girl." When he got to his late teens and early adult years, this discrimination became dangerous because he tried to be in romantic relationships a few times. Abdul is only interested in men, and they would typically follow through with whatever sex they assumed him to be. More often than not, they would become abusive when they found signs of him not identifying with a specific gender or that he didn't have the body they were expecting. One of these relationships, when he was nineteen, was so particularly violent that Abdul went to live with Joseph for a while (Abdul couldn't bear having his parents see him in shock or with any of the visible results of that relationship). Joseph broke down crying at some point at Abdul's bedside while thinking Abdul was asleep, and unconsciously admitted that it was very hard to see him like that because he thought of Abdul as his own child.

Doppio and Donatella are both Trans, and Doppio was the person who gave birth to Trish. He almost died from this, because he went into labor from the sheer amount of stress from the fire starting in his home village and his adoptive father dying. He gave birth to Trish alone, on the beach, with no anesthetic or anything. Donatella hadn't even known Doppio was pregnant, as their relationship was basically a random fling during a drug bender. So it was a huge shock to her to find a lone baby on her doorstep wrapped in a blood-stained sweater, a few days later when Doppio had the strength to climb back up to the town. He knew he couldn't take care of a baby, considering he'd just lost his only guardian and home, and already hadn't been coping well with his mental health problems and substance addiction. After passing out from blood loss and dehydration, he woke up in a hospital in a town untouched by the fire and smoke. He had to have surgery and remain hospitalized for his untreated injuries, and seemed very confused where said injuries had come from. The Sardinian police also came in to start harassing him when he was lucid enough. He kept insisting on speaking to his adoptive father. He had completely lost his memories and was extremely freaked out when hospital personnel confirmed he had given birth recently and when police accused him of abandoning a baby.

Giorno's parents are both women (besides Jonathan if we're including him). Dea (fem!Dio because more women please??) was the one who gave birth to him, and Shiobana, who's Transfem, sired him. Dea and Shiobana had a toxic, obsessive relationship. Surprisingly, Dea was actually a wonderful mother to Giorno, and had Enya, Vanilla Ice, and Terrence help take care of him. She wanted him to have a better childhood than she did. Shiobana hated children, but at one time when the sun was up, she stole Giorno away and moved back to Japan. No one knows why. Insurance money? Dea was absolutely devastated, so much that she became more fierce and evil than ever before when it was time to fight the SDC group. Her sadistic motivation to kill Jotaro came down to, "I want to make someone else feel the pain of losing a child."

Kakyoin has epilepsy. He didn't want to tell the SDC group about it because he assumed it would make him seem "weak." As an adult, he takes rotten care of himself, out of loneliness. Medication for epilepsy was ineffective at the time, at the very least, to being poison at the worst. He'd often stop taking it, turning to substance abuse instead, which made his seizures more frequent.

Doppio and Diavolo don't have DID. Diavolo is an obsessed stalker from Sardinia who had cosmetic surgery to make himself resemble Doppio, even getting the same tattoos, and he gradually brainwashed Doppio into believing they were the same person. Doppio was so effectively manipulated by him that their relationship became obsessive from both sides.

Johnny was assaulted by a group of other jockeys sometime after he got shot. They nearly killed him. The only reason he survived was because Diego witnessed the assault, and took Johnny to the hospital. Johnny had no idea how he got to the hospital, but he later heard that the group of jockeys had been murdered. At some point during the big race, Diego told Johnny that he was the one who killed them. But he made sure to tell Johnny, "I didn't do it for you. I did it for myself. I already hated those pigs, but I was abused, too. I needed something to take my anger out on. It was fun. So don't get all sentimental on me. We're not friends."

dionilla yuri because twitter has given me dionilla brain rot

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