sometimes i wonder if any of my long-term friends are even still my friends anymore. it feels like none of them want to spend time with me unless they get to control the circumstances -- but when i have the bravery to ask if we can hang out in My comfort zone it always seems like i'm asking too much.
"well i need to be in control of (environment/activity/etc)" yeah i feel that way often too, and i am asking you to meet me in my comfort zone.
"well i'm just so busy that i--" yeah i am too and i am giving you many many different options for time and setting, but for some reason it's seemingly only okay if we do it on YOUR terms?
"well my (insert a condition we share that effects us in many of the same ways) won't LET me--" yes it will because i do it for you all the fucking time. i step out of my comfort zone for you constantly. i am asking you to do it this one time for me.
