Fandoms Ruin Show Watching Experience
Don't get me wrong I love being part of fandom as it introduced me to several like-minded people who are now some of my closest friends.
But while I got new friends it ruined my show-watching experience i.e. it ruined the way I enjoyed a particular show .
I used to think it is just me and my weird theory but now that theory has been proved by two shows. Looking at my header and profile picture you may have realised that I am huge fan of Supernatural. Now until Season 6 I was enjoying the show without any drama, I didn't know about the rivalry between wincest, hatters, hetters, bibros, hellers or minions nor did I care. I was happy with my show, I used to read the fics that I liked without anyone shaming me.
In Season7, I spoke to J2 and it was amazing, my faves were sweetest people unlike some of the asshole celebs. I wanted to share my experience of speaking to J2 and that is how I came across the fandom.
The fandom welcomed me with the open arms, I made several friends but I realized my love for the show started diminishing. Soon I came to know about the rivalry and got ship shamed, I was told what to read and what not to do by a stranger online. I saw few haters diminishing my faves image and slowly I started disliking the show that I once loved. Unknowingly I started watching the show from someone else's perspective. A fan in me before joining the fandom wouldn't have cared if the writer is baiting or not. But joining the fandom, I started focusing on this unnecessary things. The forced inclusion of characters became quite apparent which inturn ruined the overall show watching experience.
Now this view depend on individual perspective, some might feel or say that I was being ignorant before but for me it ruined the experience.
Do I regret joining fandom? No.
Do I miss my show and the simple times? Yes.
Also, as I said before I wasn't sure about the theory of Fandom ruining show-watching experience but my theory was proved right when same thing happened with other show - Modern Family. I also found other fans who thought the same thing.
Only difference between Modern Family and Supernatural was that the later is still running. Modern Family ended with Season 11 and I decided to take a peek in fandom as I was missing Modern Family. Soon, I realized there were fans who had issue with several plot lines but when I looked back at my experience I enjoyed that plot line coz I wasn't thinking about whether it is right or wrong. For me that show was a work of fiction made for entertainment and I was consuming it as entertainment. I wasn't comparing it to the real world. And I realised that this is exactly why the show-watching experience gets ruined. People forget that the show they are watching is pure work of fiction and starts comparing to reality. The moment it mixes with reality the essence is lost and you live in limbo where you don't know the purpose behind thing that you are watching.











