The My Time harassment campaign against me is still ongoing — and they’re escalating again by pretending to be an unrelated party responding to a 7 year old work in an old fandom.
I need to say this plainly, because I tried the “don’t engage, they’ll get bored” approach, and it didn’t work. It's been over a year since they dropped a ~500 page call-out document about me (which they've since expanded to ~700 pages), and it just gave them more space to write the story for me while other people bought it as fact. I’m not letting that happen anymore.
I am still being targeted by the same My Time fandom harassment campaign more than two years later.
Not because I’m “feeding it.” Not because I keep engaging. In many cases, I haven’t engaged at all, and they keep going anyway, because the point has never been resolution. The point is control, isolation, and erasure.
Their pattern is consistent:
They blame any conflict in the fandom on me: If someone dislikes Pathea, or dislikes them, or calls out anything toxic in the community, it gets funneled into “it must be Snowy.” No evidence required. Just repetition until it hardens into “common knowledge.”
They recruit by whisper campaign: I’ve had wave after wave of people block me — people I’ve never spoken to, never interacted with, sometimes people I didn’t even know existed. That doesn’t happen organically. That’s social engineering.
They try to get me removed from spaces: They’ve targeted other servers/communities I’ve been in, mass-reporting and pressuring owners/mods to ban me (and sometimes even people associated with me) to create a sense that I’m “universally unsafe.” They often justify this by presenting their callout document as a plea for me to “leave them alone,” based on untrue allegations that I was harassing them. The “proof” they circulate is largely out-of-context DMs and character judgments about me, not actual evidence of me committing their alleged harassment. More telling is that if their real goal were simply for me to “leave them alone,” they wouldn’t be following me across the internet to keep contacting and harassing me.
They create disposable accounts to keep reaching me: When one avenue closes, they pop up somewhere else; I turned off anon asks on Tumblr a long time ago specifically because of these people's harassment, and they still create fresh throwaway accounts to bypass that boundary and send me messages like this. In this case, they also posted the same message on my AO3 (on a 7-year-old work). And realistically, how would a random “critic” even know to look for my Tumblr in the first place? The goal here isn’t to discuss my work, it’s persistence and intimidation: “we can reach you anywhere,” and “you’re not welcome.” It’s harassment designed to make me feel unwelcome and to remind me they can follow me anywhere.
Cross-space stalking even with privacy settings: I’ve turned off my Reddit posting history, and they still manage to follow me into other subreddits I post in, and they find me fast, often shortly after I post, which suggests constant monitoring. For example, I shared a piece of Burgess fanart in r/gaymers, and a brand-new throwaway account showed up almost immediately to attack me with the same baseless smear narrative. With my history hidden, the only way to do that is to manually stalk the spaces I might post in or otherwise actively track me; this isn’t “organic disagreement,” it’s stalking.
They manufacture “proof” instead of bringing facts: When there isn’t real wrongdoing, they quote-mine, reframe innocuous things in bad faith, and invent motives. Their ~700-page callout document is packed with screenshots pulled from public servers that often show nothing more than normal conversation. Because it’s so massive, most people never read it, they just accept the “summary,” without seeing how rambling and nonsensical the actual content is.
They distort context to make innocuous things look damning: They pull my DMs out of context (and sometimes rearrange excerpts), omit what I was responding to, and assign the worst possible motives as “fact.” They even drag in unrelated disputes (like me calling out someone who scammed me) as “character evidence.” And they accuse me of “armies of alts” while their own campaign relies heavily on alt/anon accounts (including the doc itself), and I’m the one being repeatedly targeted by throwaway alts.
The “mysterious anon narrator” pattern (likely self-seeded): There’s a recurring anonymous/throwaway account voice that appears unusually invested in keeping the narrative alive, sending messages that repeat the same smear points, escalate accusations, and even encourage extreme actions (like urging people to call the police on me “to build a record”). Given that I haven’t spoken with the individual engaging in this for about a year and these messages continued throughout last year and into this year anyway, it raises a reasonable concern that some of this “anon chatter” is being generated or amplified by the same core people to make it look like a wider public consensus and/or to keep the narrative going.
Account takeover attempts timed with escalations: I get waves of password reset attempts and “restore your account”/login links (phishing-style messages). Yes, lots of people get random reset emails, but mine consistently spike during the same windows when the harassment escalates, which feels too coincidental to ignore.
“Anyone who supports you is secretly you” tactic: They claim that anyone who stands up for me, or is even loosely associated with me, must be one of my alt accounts. That includes real people I’ve known and collaborated with (including my candle-making friend) and people I met organically through the fandom. They then point to these real people as “proof” I use alts. It’s designed to punish support and isolate me, making the narrative self-sealing: if someone defends me, they say it’s “me”; if no one defends me, they say it’s “proof.”
And one of the most disturbing pieces of this campaign is how they weaponize mental health care.
This is not “concern.” It’s a tactic.
They try to give their harassment legitimacy by:
Preceding their smear materials with suicide/veteran resources (to create a veneer of moral authority),
Using “get help” as a cudgel instead of a kindness,
Triggering things like Reddit “care resources” at me, not because they’re worried, but because it’s another way to label me as unstable and dangerous.
That is not support. That is stigmatization as a weapon.
They’ve done the same thing in their so-called “evidence,” too, including presenting unqualified, detailed psychoanalysis of me as if it’s fact. That’s the level of “proof” we’re dealing with: not verified events, not direct evidence, but armchair diagnosis dressed up like documentation.
Which brings me to the latest escalation:
They made a brand-new account to send me a harassment message on Tumblr, and then posted the same message on AO3 on a seven-year-old work of mine.
This isn’t someone who stumbled across my writing and had a strong opinion. This is someone who is actively hunting for new surfaces to harass me on, and deliberately dredging up old content so they can pretend it’s “unrelated” to the current campaign, or so they can frame it like “this is just a random reader,” when it’s clearly the same long-running obsession.
It’s harassment. Point blank.
And here’s the saddest part: because I didn’t push back hard at the very beginning, because I assumed reasonable people would recognize what this was, it snowballed. Now a lot of people accept their narrative as “fact” without ever examining what’s actually being circulated. Most people will not read a 700-page document. They’ll absorb the social summary and treat it like truth.
That’s how these campaigns work. They don’t win by evidence. They win by exhaustion, repetition, and social pressure.
So I’m saying it clearly, publicly:
It has nothing to do with accountability and everything to do with harassment.
And I’m not going to accept mental health stigmatization being used as a leash.
If you’re someone who has heard things about me secondhand — I’m asking you to take one breath and recognize the mechanism: a smear ecosystem that thrives on rumor laundering, “silence = guilt,” and “defense = manipulation.” If you have a good-faith question, ask me directly. If you’re here to dogpile or play detective, you will be blocked and reported.
I’m done being polite to a machine that’s designed to grind people down.
