enjoying a character acquiring a disability in a "fascinated by how they might adapt and what disability aids they might use as well as how they gradually unlearn internalized ableism" way when the rest of the fandom enjoys it in a "purely tragedy/angst fuel synonymous with the character suffering" way is like. how you actually arrive at the level of suffering that the rest of the fandom thinks is caused by just existing with a disability
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including disabilities from the source material, no matter the universe, should be the default, not the rare exception
fluff isn't ruined by incluing disability
smut isn't ruined by including disability
happy endings aren't ruined by including disability
escapist fantasies aren't ruined by including disability
including disability doesn't require a phd in disability studies
including disability doesn't require a focus on suffering and tragedy
including disability can be as simple as, at minimum, a good faith choice to periodically note how a character interacts with their immediate environment and/or other characters
hey @kenziexoxoxo since you're just going to ignore my ask i'm going to have to go public. it was extremely fucked up of you to call jack abbot a cripple, a word i am positive you cannot reclaim and one that is extremely incredibly offensive when not used by an actual disabled person. beyond that, the context is also demeaning and makes no sense; here's a direct quote since she's trying to pretend it never happened and hoping nobody notices:
robby was trying to make sure she didn't fall [while] walking[,] as the cripple was no help with his one good leg
you're telling me this man who spends his time on a swat team when he isn't leading an entire emergency departmentâwith all the physical demands that come with thatâis not only "no help," but a useless cripple when it comes to *checks notes* helping guide someone somewhere?*
multiple people commented on your post explaining that you cannot use this word and that it is highly offensive, and you deleted all their comments and restricted who can comment further. i sent an ask saying it was messed up and that you should apologize, and you ignored it.
this is how ableism is perpetuated. this is how it is spread. i am making this post to try to help stop it. please take a moment to reflect on why you thought it was okay to use this word disparagingly in reference to a canon disabled character and apologize. don't try to pretend it didn't happen, and certainly don't try to silence disabled people who were attempting to educate you on why what you did was messed up
*edit: i said this was a toddler earlier, but it was the y/n character
every time I make a post about Tenna I get one million tags that are some variation of âheâs MANIPULATIVE and CRAZYâ and I hate it bc first of all he literally isnât, for all Tennaâs flaws I genuinely wouldnât describe him as manipulative. Pushy, desperate, arrogant- but not manipulative.
But also like. Other significantly more flawed characters donât get this. It feels like if a character is written to be mentally ill or disabled, then people constantly need to âhold them accountableâ in ways they never do otherwise and itâs always weird to me.
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I used to be a Harry Potter kid. I have nostalgia for the series just as much as a hate it. Its honestly kinda a weird feeling but I digress. Obvs I dont support JKR and I dont support the series at all, no matter how important it was to me as a kid. The series is icky and I think I recotnized that even as a kid
I remember little ol me reading the books and feeling kinda bummed about Hagrid, cause while I was excited for the rep I didnt like that they made him the reckless bumbling idiot. I felt like he deserved better :( second book only really made that worse (side note, but I had other gripes not just with Hagrid. I always felt kinda icky reading about Crabbe and Goyle an Neville too cause they reminded me of me and some of my friends in my special ed class getting taken advantage by people pretending to be friends because they thought it was funny to fuck with us)
Then the fourth book came and I kinda didnt like the series as much anymore. Between Umbridge being described as âtoadlike,â Hagrid being a halfgiant (which could have been a cool exploration of culture, racism against mixed folks, as well as deformimisia but noâŚ) and then they had Moody and I was excited because this was another disfigured person in a teaching role and I really liked Lupin and hoped this guy stuck around
And then they deliberately made him really scary and went through all the trouble to show just how creepy he was⌠and I know that they had the whole âhes really not that badâ moment with Neville but the whole âtorturing and killing a spiderâ thing was still really gross and I know it wasnât really Moody but it still hurt because thats how they portrayed him and continued to portray him what little times he showed up
I found the scenes and descriptions of Voldemort over all really disheartening cause he was painted as being inhuman⌠you could make the argument he was meant to be portrayed as more snakelike and yeah I can see it in some instances but a lot of other stuff is just inexcusable
As much as the series is nostalgic just cause I read it as a kid, it also feels really icky. It felt icky then I think I was just desensitized. It hurts seeing yourself in a book and on a screen being portrayed as a monster and I think it gave me some really bad internalized deformimisia and disfiguremisia :(
This is deformimisia.
Yeah, Harry Potter is filled to the brim with problematic things, and ableism is definitely one. Literally every character who has disabled traits gets mocked, demonized, or infantilized for it.
I wish people would drop HP already. JKR is using her money to donate literally THOUSANDS of euros to anti-trans organizations, and her books are all ableist, antisemitic, gender essentialist, transphobic, exorsexist, and varsexist.
proshippers be like: yeah I defend racial and ableist sterotypes. its just fiction dude!!!
its "harassing" now to *checks note* tell people if theirs a sterotype in their writing.
Anon
Is it reasonable for someone to tell a writer "hey, i'm part of this race/sexual identity/disability that you're writing about, and your depiction is very stereotypical and problematic. You need to take this work down or rewrite it?
A friend of mine considers themself anti-censorship but
thinks that if you write about an identity you aren't a part of
and receive criticism for it and don't take down/change the
work, people are allowed to set you straight.
("Set straight" in this instance means making posts that say
"this person is racist/homophobic, so report their account
and do not support them", making burner accounts to com-
ment on all of their posts about how bad the fic in question
is or calling them racist/sexist, or spamming the fic with ag-
gressive comments).
Their argument is that freedom of expression stops when
your expression involves stereotypes or misinformation
about marginalized groups, since it affects real people. I'm
having a hard time disagreeing with them to be honest.
the response:
no, it is never reasonable or justifiable to harass anybody. period. I have already talked about this before but you (general you)
someone is racist or homophobic or a bad person in real life just because
they write about fictional stories that are taboo and "problematic" in a
way that is "problematic". I have always praised "write whatever you
want, however you want" and I mean writers can and should write
whatever they want, however they want. what art someone creates does not reflect their real life moral compass or who they are as a person.
my advice for your friend is to close the tab and move on. because while
I get how frustrating it can get and while their feelings are valid,
fanfiction is not an activism and fanfic writers do not owe anybody
anything. fanfic writers write for themselves. they don't write for
anybody's approval. or at least I write for myself, not for anybody's
approval.
no, people are not freely allowed to "set someone straight" if it's a hobby
that that someone does for themself and their own enjoyment. "but
what they write is harmful" actually it's words on a screen that you (still
general you) choose to read, you can stop reading anytime you want.
and if someone else reads it and thinks "oh everything that is written in
this fanfiction must be true in real life because it's portrayed as such in
this piece of fiction, I will change my entire moral compass now" then
chances are that with or without the fiction they consume, they are
already troubled - if they can't separace fiction from reality - and they need help the problem is them not the writer or how they write their fic
no one needs to take anything down because it pissed someone else off.
"taking something down because someone else doesn't want people to
see it and so they believe they have the power to control what other
people see and what can be created" is literally a fascist tool and what
censorship means. so your friend cannot claim to be anti censorship if
they think a work that offended them specifically should be taken down,
otherwise I promise you there would be no fic about taboo contents or
"problematic" ships. because these fics still offended someone and
there are people (pro censorship folks) who believe these fics should be
taken down because it offended them.
anti censorship means no censorship, no censorship means no
censorship. it does not mean "works I personally think is morally goop
enough can stay but works that I personally find too offensive must go".
"but it affects real people". no, it doesn't. it's a work about fictional
characters. not you. "but it's about marginalized people who are real" it's
still a fictional stories about fictional characters. by your friend's logic,
works that contain topics like violence, murder or SA also affect real
people because violence, murder and SA happen to real people in real
life too. go back and read what I've already said:
"if someone else reads it and thinks "oh everything that is written in
this fanfiction must be true in real life because it's portrayed as such
in this piece of fiction, I will change my entire moral compass now"
then chances are that with or without the fiction they consume, they
are already troubled - if they can't separate fiction from reality-
and they need help. the problem is them. not the writer or how they
write their fic."
also⌠good luck trying to report works you don't like on ao3, a no
censorship site that was created specifically to host and give platform to
works that are deemed "offensive, harmful and problematic" by pro
censorship folks.
In light of worst Jack Abbot takes Iâve seen I am absolutely centering more of my writing to actually include his disability in a way that isnât just âoh yeah and heâs missing a legâ type of dismissive-ness.
Im getting a bit ranty please excuse me
I feel Iâm not going to articulate myself well but bear with me. A character is not their disability and it shouldnât be their one defining trait. As well, a character has their disability and it canât be ignored or turned into a one-note moment for plot purposes. I think about characters who are disabled but can still âdo everything a ânormalâ person canâ, because itâs not really a reflection of what it is to be disabled. I also think of characters who only serve to âbeâ their disability, like it was a last minute add on slapped into their character outline to increase diversity.
I could count on one hand the number of physically disabled characters Iâve seen whoâve actually been real, fleshed out characters whoâs disabilities are included without consuming their personality.
I am not an amputee, I cannot speak to the specific representation (and effects of it being ignored). I am at least a little qualified to talk about seeing disabled rep as a whole and how fandom engages with it (for context, when I was six I hit a car while sledding, leaving me with brain damage that causes severe migraines/disorganized speech and chronic pain that has caused me to drop out of competitions in my sport and eventually my sport entirely).
Itâs just so fucking nice man. I fucking love Abbot because it feels like proof that I can exist like that, I can do things I want to do and I can accept I have limits at the same time. No inspirational - porn bullshit about him being disabled and being successful âagainst the oddsâ.
I love the way they reveal it at the end of season 1. Thereâs no grand story explaining what happened, his prosthetic doesnât break suddenly during shift, itâs not a background detail either, itâs not revealed through some ableist joke. It just is. Only Victoria reacts a little, mainly because she just didnât know. Everyone else in the park sees it as normal because it is normal.