Meet Korry Valley a freshman at Northeastern University! Korry’s story is unique in that she has lived in the Philippines most of her life (Alabang, Metro Manila to be precise!), and does not identify as Filipino-American.
How did you first become involved in the Filipino - American community?
I moved the the Philippines when I was a baby because of my dad's job.
What part of Filipino culture do you most connect with?
I connect with the corny jokes, laughing a lot, the "too sweet" or "too salty" tastes of typical Filipino food. I connect with how people treat each other, and how people are so friendly no matter who they are :)
What have you learned by being a part of your school's Filipino cultural organization?
The first weeks of school I was extremely home sick, I missed the Philippines so much, and when I joined NU Barkada, it felt like I found a bit of home, in a place that wasn't home to me yet. (wow so deep) But it's really true, I love being with people who share or have similar beliefs, and values just because they have connections to the Philippines.
In what ways do you see ties in your own culture or background with the Filipino culture?
Even though I am American and I was brought up in an American household, I feel that a lot of my culture has been strongly influenced by Filipino Culture, because of the people I was friends with, the people who helped me grow up, all influenced the way I saw things. I think that American and Filipino Culture have similarities that they both want and love having a good time, and we all loveeeee to eat (although bread/pasta = rice)
Describe a significant event in your life that shaped who you are today
My junior year of highschool, I started a Project for street kids in the Philippines. I was helped out by my church who called it "Side walk Sunday". My project was to give street kids their Christmas wishes. So in early November my friends and I asked all streets kids who attended Side walk Sunday, what they wanted most for Christmas, some kids put batman toys, barbie, and others put shoes, pajamas, black board and chalk to draw, and one kid asked for a sewing machine to fix his clothes. I was really moved by what the kids asked for because I never realized how much I had until they wanted things like chalk, and pajamas.. Throughout November we found sponsors to buy/or donate 500 pesos (about 10$) so that we could buy each kid their gift. On Christmas Eve, we handed out about 150 presents with their Christmas wish, a snack, and slippers. All the kids were really grateful and it filled my heart to see that. Now when I want something I try to think about everything I already have, and I am a lot more thankful because of what I saw.
What do you feel most grateful for your life?
My Family, they are my support system, and I have no idea what I would do without them.
Tell us about someone who has had a big influence in your life?
My coaches in high school, they showed me how to work hard, and be respectful. They didn't only teach me how to be an athlete but they taught me how to carry myself, and to do with right thing.
Describe the happiest moment of your life
The happiest moment in my life was adopting my brother, Zach. He is full filipino, and we adopted him from White Cross in the Philippines when he was 3. Even though he is a massive pain most of the time, he makes me so happy and I couldn't wish for a better brother.
Can you tell us about one of your most difficult memories?
One of my most difficult memories was when I was in about middle school, my dad had lost his job, and we were going to move away from the Philippines for good because of it. Hearing that was one of the hardest things I had to deal with because for me, even though I'm not Filipino, the Philippines is home to me. On the bright side, he found another job and I got to stay <3
What has been one of your biggest regrets in life so far?
Not trying to tryout other things, I wish that I got into more clubs in highschool, because looking at it now, I would never know if I enjoyed acting, or singing, but I was always too shy to try.
Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
I really want to have a good paying job, and live in a nice area, with a beautiful home, and a dog. I want to be happy and secure.
What traditions have been passed down your family?
My family doesn't have many traditions but my favorite tradition is eating homemade lasagna, and watching its a wonderful life on Christmas Eve.
Describe your immediate/household family
My family consists of an older Sister, Jordan, younger brother Zach, my mom, Patti, and my dad, Darin. We have two huskies Nala, and Kannel who are adorable. Other people who live in my house, is Marian, who helps me with everything, Iverson, her son (my brothers best friend) and Johnryl who always helps us out.
Do you have any stories involving your older/deceased ancestors?
My grandfather passed away when I was 12, but when we go to visit his grave, there is always a white butterfly flying around, so when we see a white butterfly ever, we say its my grandfather watching over us.
Describe an extended family member you are most attached to and the relationship you have with him/her
I am most attached to my grandmother, she always tries to help everyone out, and she does good, puts others before her, and she is just an amazing person.
Is having a knowledge of family history important? Why or why not?
I think it is, because it provides a piece of who you are and where you came from.
What does it mean to be successful in your family?
To be successful in my family means that even if you don't do the best, but you know you tried your best, you're successful, and we will be proud of each other.