PINTEREST BOARDS ;

as a pinterest girlie through and through, i love making pinterest based on manifestations. like for example i've been liking to affirm "im paid to exist" so i save pins in that board based on what i think about when i think of myself paid to exist. (cash, pretty rings, purses, manicures with charms) it doesn't have to make sense to anyone but you.

RATING ON (1/5) - ❤︎❤︎❤︎❤︎ CONTEXT - im not super visual so this is only when im in the mood. great for appearance change manifestations, money, academics, etc. anything that u wanna visualize basically.

LISTENING TO MUSIC AND IMAGINING ;

sometimes when listening to music i visualize myself with my desires, or like visualize myself in an edit (💀) BUT IT WORKSS. do this and build your cringe stamina girlies. also as a singer i like to do this and manifest that this is what my voice sounds like too, rly improved my voice.

RATING ON (1/5) - ❤︎❤︎❤︎ CONTEXT - i'd only recommend again if it's a visual desire and if u have high cringe stamina/are trying to build ur cringe stamina.

ROBOTIC AFFIRMING ;

a very hot topic within the law of assumption community but i LOVE robotic affirming. especially if im dealing with doubts or just not in the best mood, not feeling myself i just keep affirming. cuz i literally can't fail so i just repeat repeat repeat repeat until i feel better. never failed me EVER.

real life example ; when i was manifesting being on the tennis team at my school despite only playing for 3 and a half months while everyone else has been playing since they were literal TODDLERS, i performed so horribly that i cried in the car on the way home, and then i cried at home. and despite being down in the dumps i never let go of "no im literally on the team" and VOILA. but robotic affirming is what got me through it.

RATING ON (1/5) - ❤︎❤︎❤︎❤︎❤︎ CONTEXT - this is something that u should only do if it's something u like, if its not something u like then its gonna feel like a chore and ur gonna be like "doing something -> to get something" and its gonna feel like hard work and ur gonna hate it. i rated it 5 hearts cuz i LOVE robotic affirming, i don't force myself, when i feel like it i do it to my hearts content.

SUBLIMINALS ;

i listen to subliminals for the whole entire day. very passive. great for lazy manifestors. if anyone tells u that subliminals aren't powerful/they take a long time then they're LYINGGG cuz it's all up to you. decide u get the results instantly.

RATING ON (1/5) - ❤︎❤︎❤︎❤︎❤︎ CONTEXT - good for everything, you can even listen to them over night. perfect for the lazy manifestor.

PLACEBO EFFECT ;

SUPERRR fun, it feels more like im playing then im actively creating my reality so i love that. great way to move through the 3D. in my february manifestation success posts i mentioned how i got complimented for being fit and skinny when i literally snack on ice cream and frosting, PLACEBO EFFECT. as im eating im like "mmm this is literally shrinking my waist". or i take my hair brush and say that everytime i use this brush my hair grows an inch and i have hair down my back.

RATING ON (1/5) - ❤︎❤︎❤︎❤︎❤︎ CONTEXT - super fun, good for making manifestation fun again. can be used for anything.

CLAIMING AND DETACHING ;

omg i love this one. it's def advanced in my opinion but im a master manifestor and you can assume you are too 🪽💗 i tend to be lazy sometimes so i just claim what i want and go about my day. when it comes to mind again, i reinforce myself that i have it, or when i am faced with something opposing that im like "nope but i have _"

RATING ON (1/5) - ❤︎❤︎❤︎ CONTEXT - very easy, anyone can do it. perfect for the lazy manifestor. perfect for manifesting something ur not too attached to.

and don't get me wrong it's not like i had an absolutley horrible experience, but it certainly wasn't exceptional either. highschool was mid as fuck. i won't miss it one bit. on the bright side though at least i didn't peak in highschool. i was literally blocking and unfollowing people that very night as soon as i got home from graduation dinner. i want to leave every ounce of highschool behind me. bury it in a bin i don't care for in the middle of nowhere and drive far away to the nearest beauty supply store to buy nail glue and cuticle oil.

i will admit though walking across the stage gave me a sense of euphoria but for two reasons only. the first being that there was applause and i loved the attention, and the second being that i was OFFICIALLY done. now that im done with highschool though my plans for after graduation are to be off the radar as fuck. lower my screen time, work on myself and working on my craft. doing everything i can to settle into my adult life smoothly and set myself up for unimaginable success that i know is already mine.

if you also hated highschool, don't worry because i did too. it's hard to enjoy a place where you're consistently snubbed and physically unable to connect with any soul but it's only a small part of my very iconic and glamorous divalicious life so im not sweating it. im excited for this next chapter of my life and congrats to all the other class of 2026 divas.

some things that someone who centers men might think are "oh my life is so boring, maybe it would be spiced up if i got with a man" or "maybe it'll bring some excitement into my day" like EUGHHH. obviously the solution is to find ways to make our lives fulfilling but how do we do that? and how do we get to the root cause and squash this self sabotaging behavior?

SELF AWARENESS ;

if u have nothing going on for u, ofc ur gonna be energetically desperate and accepting anything and EVERYTHING. practice self awareness and try to get to the root cause of why u center men through things like shadow work, therapy, or just straight up having an honest conversation with urself cuz i swear it helps.

when you make the conscious effort to build ur dream life you'll notice that people that are on the same mindset as you will vibe with the REAL you. the need to fake/adjust urself to fit in with other people will dissipate because ur fitting into ur own standards and ur connections will be more meaningful because of it.

TAKE UR POWER BACK ;

no ones actions should ruin ur day or make u upset for more then a day (even less) cuz its YOUR world. 💕🍰

make time for YOU, doll. plan self care routines for urself every week. doing face masks, journalling, vision boarding, WHATEVER U LIKE TO DO. making time for urself reminds u that ur the main character of ur life so u dont have to settle for crumbs.

stop giving that power to someone else and dictate how u feel, NOT the actions of a significant other or the opposite sex or anybody. the reason why its important to make sure that ur the center of ur own life is so that you can be happy and fulfilled regardless of if there is a man or if there isnt a man present. so the objective is to decenter men -> and then put yourself at the center

GET A HOBBY ;

find something to make ur life fulfilling. pursue ur OWN interests and try out different hobbies if ur unsure of what ur interests are yet. cultivate ur world to the point where it GLEAMS with perfection and then do a little extra. build a life that u love so much that whether u get male attention or validation doesnt even matter cuz their opinions have little to no relevance 💀

challenge yourself: next time you catch yourself thinking, ‘would a guy like this?’ flip it and ask urself "hey, do i like this?" start checking with yourself first instead of checking with others.

MAKING THE DECISION TO DECENTER MEN ;

decentering men simply means that ur deciding to no longer think, feel, act, dress, or plan ur life around a man or for the validation of any man…💬🎀

relationships will actually get BETTER when u decenter the opposite sex. cuz ur not looking for someone to compete with and ur whole on ur own. this sets the stage for balance and mutual respect and THATS hot.

you can be in a relationship and still decenter men. decentering men simply means that you are the priority, not the relationship. how can we tell if we're decentering men or not? here are a few questions to help you know if u are ->

if i did not care about looking good to the opposite sex what would i actually like to wear?

if i did not get married, how could i create the best and most abundant life for myself?

for example if you're looking in the mirror and you wanna see a smile in the mirror, you must first smile so that the mirror will reflect you smiling. the assumption always comes first. affirmations are thoughts. affirming/thinking = the same thing. if you have hot and cold thoughts then you’re going to experience a hot and cold reality, so to manifest what you want you must affirm and not contradict yourself. contradicting yourself can look like ; 

affirming and then looking for it (this is dumb because your reality is looking towards you so it can reflect what YOU want)

so in short all you have to do to apply the law of assumption is tell yourself you have what you want, think as if it’s already true. understand that this works because whatever you tell yourself is true without contradiction MUST be true. anything else is so irrelevant.  

tell yourself u have what u want, think as if its already true without contradicting yourself

LEARN UR ANGLES ;

play around until u find angles that make you feel the most confident! if u dont know where to start, try tilting your head to the side slightly, holding the phone at a higher angle, or angling ur chin down.

FIND A POSE ;

dont just stand there!! play with ur hair a little bit, use ur hand to frame ur face a bit, do a little pout SOMETHING. find out what u love to do in photos.

go onto pinterest and look at diff selfies, that way u can have a bunch of poses on like rotation in ur brain. find one that u like, like a go-to pose. for me, my go to is putting like a hand in my hair and doing a little pout i find its super flattering on me

THE MORE THE MERRIER ;

when ur taking a selfie take a BUNCH, like a LOT and from all those photos go thru them and see which one u love the best and delete the rest. or something that i like to do is take a video of myself instead, and then screenshot photos from the videos.

i find that it makes the photo look so much crisper yet soft at the same time, all in all prettier ✨ also if u have a mac take photos on it cuz the mac camera makes everyone look good.

CONFIDENCE IS KEY ;