Every job I ever get, every class I ever took, and any other group Iāve been arbitrarily thrown into results the same. Iām quiet and reserved because Iām introverted and have social anxiety. The average person doesnāt like these traits, and judges those who donāt want to sit around and chit-chat all damn day while trying to do work.
Then, when it comes time for my evaluation, itāll note that Iām ānot a team playerā or that I wasnāt āfriendly enough.ā
So, in other words, āYou donāt deserve a job because you donāt know how to be casually trusting and open with people you barely know.ā
āYou donāt deserve a job because you didnāt feel like wasting a bunch of energy pretending to care about what people did over the weekend or discussing other vapid topics, like celebrities or gossip.ā










