#everyone is different

Thank you so much, that genuinely means so much to me 🥺

Although I could be mistaken and people could have their own versions of the dynamic via AUs too, but beside that. I just can’t envision them saying it in any way. If anything? I think they would be very mad of someone claimed that, throwing the word out with the assumption that they’d agree.

omg hi!!!!!! oooooof so many >.< disclaimer: I suggest picking up a body, even if its standard vanilla because most clothing mods are for vtk and you won't get crazy clips. (Vivi uses EVB, but theres all kinds...) For most of my base, I use Raem's mods. They have the most unisex options and the main accessories. For hair, clothes and also comms, I go to Wingdeer. (Vessnelle also is the best for masc hair and complexions) Anything poses, its Elfie!! (I also use her rig, its really nice.) For the bad bitch unlocks outfits, Hera!!! Five has really amazing suits and masc options (and nsfw poses...). For customization Arkhe and CarolineKarolina are my go tos. honorable mentions: - Tariqy (masc options) - FrauBlume (masc options) - N3nni (cute basics) - Apheliussy (textured hairstyles) - Sedth (cyberware) - Kiasuburger (cyberware)

and to me, the most important mod of all: Accurate Black Skins by Seifu

I don't like peas. Nobody is gonna argue with me about that.

But I say I don't like being touched, and all I hear is "But I want a hug." "But I love you, I wanna touch you." "Have you tried getting over it?"

If you really care about me, then you'll respect my boundaries and keep your hands off of me.

I say I'm uncomfortable with eye contact, and all I hear is "Its disrespectful to not look someone in the eye when they're talking to you." "It seems like you're not paying attention." "Its not a big deal, just do it." "Have you tried getting over it?"

If I've explained that I'm simply uncomfortable with eye contact, then you should know that I am listening to you. And if you had the patience to finish what you were talking about and gave me the chance to respond, instead of stopping mid-sentence to berate me, then you'd know I was paying attention.

I say I don't wanna have sex, and all I hear is "You just haven't met the right person." "How do you expect to have a lasting relationship if you refuse to be intimate?" "Don't you love your partner?" "You're gonna make your partner feel unattractive." "But I want grandkids someday." "Have you tried getting over it?"

That's between me and my partner. Sex isn't always necessary. All relationships are different. You just need to find someone you're compatible with. If I'm with someone who respects my boundaries, then I have met the right person. If you can't have a relationship that excludes sex, then it's a good thing it's not your relationship. And whether or not I have kids is up to me. If i do decide I want a kid, there are other ways.

Separating people into ‘normal’ and ‘special’ in any category just gives the ‘normal’ people a reason to discriminate against the ‘special’ ones.

Why can’t we just accept the things people need without having to justify them as ‘special’ or justifying them at all?