"We Are Always Tender With Our Dead" (2025) by Eric LaRocca - Book Review
⭐⭐⭐ 1/2
Bleak, unsettling, oppressive.
Underneath the shock value of LaRocca’s storytelling, the themes of SA, DV, and other forms of torture contribute to the book’s wider questions about personhood: what makes someone worthy of safety, dignity, autonomy, and who gets to decide that?
The rural setting the purple-clad council of elders create a strong sense of isolation; both between the characters and the outside world - giving weight to the way violence is normalized within their community - and from each other - examining performative masculinity and covert queerness, particularly in how pressure to conform can shape identity and relationships.
I probably wouldn’t recommend this to anyone due to some of the themes, but I can see this being one for fans of Kristopher Triana or Aron Beauregard.












