With a sun, moon and mercury in Scorpio you are likely to be quite emotional yet very secretive. You're an observer, and not per se the type to approach people easily. Your Aquarius ascendant however, shows that people already see you as a friendly person. You seem and express yourself as a friendly and open-minded person, even if your own psyche might seem or be different to you.

The real issue here isn't with how others perceive you, but with how you perceive yourself. This goes quite beyond astrology- but really: self acceptance goes a long way. It's okay to be bad at certain things. Give yourself credit where credit is due and always try to grow. Accepting myself made me feel a lot more comfortable and confident. This comes with time and constantly reminding yourself that you're doing your best and it's okay. You don't need to be less of you to be more positive, it's exactly the opposite: the more you become your true self and the more you embrace it, the more positive and nice you will be. If someone shows you kindness, you'll be kinder back, etc. It all starts with your self perception. Realize that this all takes time as well. Caring for yourself is something you should always try to do. There's only one you. Treasure yourself💗

It was said outright in the DR:AE finale, even! She chose BOTH. People who say otherwise are basically letting Monaka win.