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—@enneaapp

You deserve the same love/forgiveness/attention you so willing give to others. You matter. 😘 #selfcare #selfcompassion #selflove #lovingkindness #forgiveness #enneagram2 #enneagram #enneagram1 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #igdaily #instagram https://www.instagram.com/p/B5CvSbXlHUg/?igshid=1ky44vxzqy0cn

We all know it’s true, 8’s get a bad wrap for being the ones who can’t deal with their vulnerability. But the truth is, none of us are all that great at being truly vulnerable, and we just choose 9 different ways to avoid it. •• Vulnerability is vital for true intimacy. It is showing up and being deeply seen for who we really are. And that shit is waaaay harder than it sounds. Vulnerability takes practice, and that practice is often deeply uncomfortable. •• This discomfort stems from the fact that we’ve built our entire personalities around avoiding vulnerability, staying in control, and managing the pain of being a human in this world. To practice vulnerability brings us right back to that pain, but it’s here we can transform it and open our lives up to a whole to new world of possibilities. •• I almost never do type specific breakdowns anymore, but this seems appropriate: •• 1’s avoid vulnerability by always working to be right, good, or appropriate. 2’s avoid vulnerability by always being willing to help and focusing on the needs of others. 3’s avoid vulnerability by achieving goals, being seen as successful, and exemplifying the values of their culture. 4’s avoid vulnerability by being unique, special, or exceptional in some way. 5’s avoid vulnerability by gaining knowledge and working to understand. 6’s avoid vulnerability by always questioning, and brokering certainty. 7’s avoid vulnerability by always having a back up plan, their ability to reframe, and humor. 8’s avoid vulnerability by being strong, capable, and having an impact on the world around them. 9’s avoid vulnerability by forgetting themselves and what they need and want in situations. •• How do these resonate with you? How do you practice vulnerability? Let me know in the comments! • • • #enneagram #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #millenneagram #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #enneagramcoach #queerenneagram #personalitytypes #enneagramtypes #spiritualwork #innerwork #transformation #contemplative #contemplativepractice #practice #yoga #meditation #quote #quoteoftheday #qotd #handdrawn #handlettering (at Austin, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/B3wh4DKFSkk/?igshid=ye685uz7nmlw

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INTJ (ennea 6): ESTP, can I talk to you? ESTP (ennea 8): Oh no. What is it now? INTJ: Could you not leave your pots in the sink? ESTP: Uhm, no. They have to soak for a while, so I can get them clean. INTJ: But they’re in the way when I do the dishes. ESTP: Just move them to the side? Should be easy enough. INTJ: They fall. ESTP: Come on, man. The chance of that is very low. They’re pretty sturdy! INTJ: The last 2 times I accidentally pushed them so there was water ALL OVER THE COUNTER! ESTP: IT’S NOT MY FAULT YOU’RE SO CLUMSY! - after a heated arguement -  ESTP: *in her room chilling* INTJ: *knocks on the door* Hey, ESTP. I’d like to apologize about before, and I want to know if we’re okay.. ESTP: If we’re okay? Why wouldn’t we be okay? INTJ: The arguement before... I hope it won’t ruin anything. ESTP: Of course not? It’s already forgotten, man. - the next day - ESTP: *receives a text message from INTJ: “Hey. I feel bad after yesterday because of our fight, and I’d like to say ‘sorry’“* Jesus Christ. He needs to get over that. *ignores text* - at home -  INTJ: Did you receive my message? ESTP: *forgot about it* About what? INTJ: The message where I said sorry.. ESTP: Oh. Didn’t I tell you yesterday that I’d already forgotten about it?! INTJ: Yeah, but. I just want to make sure that we’re okay. ESTP: WE ARE OKAY! INTJ: OKAY, I’M SORRY! ESTP: STOP SAYING SORRY!!!

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