#enneagram test

hopes to travel world, have fun, discover, try new things -> hinting at slight enneagram 7 fix

wants to be seen as "competent leader" and reliable -> social subtype, enneagram 3

hates boredom, hates doing nothing -> mix of enneagram 3 and 7 working together

self worth around family/friends almost seems to be based on achievements, or "potential" -> enneagram 3

hard to deal with anger, can become "horrible" or angry, insult or strike objects, seek revenge or say awful things-> enneagram 8

shame almost connected to anger, dissociation -> enneagram 3 and enneagram 8

when anxious finds it hard to be rational -> 8>7, enneagram 7 likes rationalizing in stress

bonus mbti thoughts: ExxJ

hates uncertainty -> possibly high ni or even si

your answers about emotions are very physical related, which is probably higher in sensory functions

likes objectivity -> high te

Basic Fear

Seven with an eight wing fear being deprived. They want to pursue new opportunities and avoid being controlled by schedules.

Basic Desire

Their basic desire is to content and satisfied. They love experiencing the world by traveling and going to parties. Opportunists defend themselves by justifying others’ negative actions and rationalizing away bad feelings.

7w8 Personalities Tend To...

Prioritize optimism and gratification

Seek opportunity and experience

Be afraid of missing out

Love the company of others

Justify negative actions and feelings

Strengths

Staying high-energy and positive

Natural self-confidence and charisma

Ability to assert themselves

Remaining calm in situations of crisis

Weaknesses

Being perceived as impatient and blunt

Focusing too heavily on career as the Batkid

Difficulty following through on plans

Tendency to focus on material items

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Type 2

Their negative aspects tend to take the following forms:

* Overly Self-Sacrificing: Strong inclination to prioritize others' needs over their own, often to the detriment of their own well-being.

* Validation Seeking: Seeking approval and validation from others by constantly helping and being indispensable.

* Manipulative Behavior: Tendency to manipulate situations and emotions to feel needed and valued.

* Hidden Agenda: Helping others with the underlying expectation of receiving appreciation or reciprocation.

* Boundary Issues: Difficulty setting healthy boundaries, leading to emotional exhaustion and burnout.

* Resentment: Developing resentment when their efforts aren't acknowledged or reciprocated as expected.

* Ignoring Personal Needs: Neglecting their own needs and desires while focusing excessively on fulfilling others'.

* Fear of Rejection: Constantly fearing rejection or abandonment if they don't meet others' needs.

* Dependence on Others' Approval: Relying on external validation for their sense of self-worth and identity.

* Loss of Authenticity: Suppressing their own feelings and opinions to cater to others' preferences.

* Emotional Manipulation: Using emotions to control situations, often making others feel guilty for not complying.

* Avoiding Conflict: Going to great lengths to avoid conflict and disagreements, even at their own expense.

* Loss of Identity: Struggling to distinguish their own desires and identity from those they help.

* Exaggerated Selflessness: Displaying excessive selflessness to the point of denying their own needs altogether.

* Emotional Volatility: Swinging between feelings of selflessness and moments of frustration or anger.

* Martyr Complex: Adopting the role of the martyr, using their sacrifices to garner sympathy and attention.

* Conditional Giving: Giving with strings attached, expecting something in return for their help.

* Neglecting Self-Reflection: Focusing so much on others that they fail to reflect on their own feelings and motivations.

* Unhealthy Attachments: Forming co-dependent relationships based on their role as the caregiver.

* Burnout: Constantly overextending themselves without proper self-care, leading to burnout.

* Loss of Autonomy: Feeling trapped by their need to be needed, which can hinder their personal growth.

* Fear of Abandonment: Worrying that if they stop helping, they'll be abandoned or unloved.

* Validation Addiction: Becoming addicted to the emotional highs they get from being needed and appreciated.

Type 7

Their negative aspects tend to take the following forms:

* Avoidance of Negative Emotions: Tendency to avoid facing negative emotions by seeking distractions.

* Restlessness: Struggling with being fully present, and always seeking new experiences.

* Superficial Gratification: Pursuit of pleasure and novelty for immediate gratification.

* Escapism: Using distractions, such as excessive planning or indulgence, to evade discomfort.

* Fear of Boredom: Strong aversion to routine or mundane activities, fearing boredom.

* Overcommitment: Engaging in numerous activities simultaneously, often to the point of exhaustion.

* Difficulty with Commitment: Struggle with committing to long-term projects or relationships.

* Disregarding Consequences: Ignoring potential negative outcomes in favor of immediate enjoyment.

* Impulsiveness: Making hasty decisions based on excitement rather than careful consideration.

* Avoidance of Pain: Evading emotional pain or discomfort by focusing on positive experiences.

* Difficulty Processing Emotions: Struggling to process and express deeper emotions.

* Shallow Connections: Forming many social connections but rarely developing deep relationships.

* Fear of Missing Out: Anxiety about missing out on new experiences or opportunities.

* Ignoring Practicalities: Neglecting practical responsibilities in pursuit of excitement.

* Dependency on External Stimuli: Relying on external sources for happiness and satisfaction.

* Perpetual Searching: Always searching for the next best thing, leading to dissatisfaction.

* Escalation of Escapism: Escaping into fantasies or overindulgence during times of stress.

* Lack of Follow-Through: Difficulty completing tasks that lose their initial appeal.

* Avoidance of Negative News: Avoiding negative news or situations that disrupt positivity.

* Difficulty with Intimacy: Struggling to engage in deep emotional intimacy due to avoidance of pain.

* Resistance to Discomfort: Unwillingness to face discomfort or negative emotions head-on.

* Fear of Being Trapped: Anxiety about being tied down or limited in their choices.

* Loss of Perspective: Getting caught up in the pursuit of pleasure, neglecting long-term goals.

* Vulnerability Aversion: Reluctance to reveal vulnerabilities or fears to others.