I am so sorry self, i am fucked up once again, but this time a little happier than before, is it a progress i don't know, but does it hurt, yes it does, not so much, but it does.

Listen, think, reflect, pray and then pray again and then act #relationships #endingrelationships #christian #preaching #bible https://www.instagram.com/p/CSOAqSvrKzQ/?utm_medium=tumblr

Frail - Day 8 late Inktober drawings Relationships are funny things, sometimes they are frail and hard to keep up with but they are worth it, especially during times like these. . . . . . . . #frail #relationships #connectionofheart💞 #walkaway #endingrelationships #inktober2019 #inktoberdrawing #inktoberday8 https://www.instagram.com/p/B-uoFTvhkXr/?igshid=irpiiukfmmr8

This is my year for saying goodbye to a lot of people. Part of me says to myself, "well you probably need these people due to all you've been through jazz." Then I remember the eff ish and the fact that i'm a dope ass chick and That I always give people the opportunity for correction. I make it easy honestly, although many think I'm difficult. I've had to reluctantly but confidently let people go who were family, friends and yes even a significant other also. When the minimum is not being met I can't keep people in my life and I don't care what your title is and/or how much I love you. And I have to positively move forward when people can't get pass their negative. So another one bites the dust. Oh well, Such is life.👸🏾 #movingon#endingrelationships#suchislife#love#writer#poet#poetry#therapeutic #centeryourself keeping it #positive is all a part of the #journey #widow #mom#positiveVibes#GoodVibes #JAZZHASTHEANSWERS #JAZZ_NYCWAO#blackgirlmagic#GOODMORNING#loveYourself#blackwomanmagic #blackgirlsrock #DARKLOVE #summer16 #blackgirlmagic#teamlove #strongwoman #focused #instagram#melanin#JAZZYFACTS

I miss you so much. I want to talk to you more than anything, and the more you flood my phone with texts the more I question my strength. But the fact is I was in a relationship with you for a long time and we went through a lot of shit. Drug problems, trust issues, you cheating on me, stealing from me, never having a job, lieing to me about everything in the world. And I forgave you. And forgave you, and forgave you. I was there for you. I was always your rock, your support system, your everything. I clothed you, I fed you, I made sure you always had everything you needed, clear eyes because even when your not stoned your eyes are red, those little cosmic brownies you loved so much. I tweezed your eyebrows, and shaved your balls. I literally did everything in my power in my being to make you happy and what do I get? A bruised up body. I got pushed and pushed and fell so many times. I have swollen arms from the punches, I have a swollen nose from the headbutt, I have bruises all over my arms and breasts and chest. I have scars on my legs and arms from back when you’d leave for days at a time and I’d cut myself because I thought I was the problem. I put everything in me into you because I honestly thought I didn’t have that much to give, but everything I had I wanted you to have. I wanted you to be privileged I wanted you and I to be one. I couldn’t even remember all the times I’d cry and cry and cry. And you never cared. You beat me for the last time. As much as it pains me to say it, I can’t keep you in my life, my moon and stars. And so I share this with you tumblr, instead of him. Because if I did send him this he would just come back with something stupid like “but baby I love you can’t you just give me another chance” so here you go tumblr, whoever is reading this. I did what I could. I did everything I could. But I’m broken now. Left in literal pain. I hope you never forget that day. I know I’ll never forget a thing.

It takes courage and honesty to end a relationship—with friends, loved ones, or a work relationship. Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the relationship die from lack of attention rather than risk ending it. Sometimes, it may appear easier to let the other person take responsibility for ending the relationship. We may be tempted to take a passive approach. Instead of saying how we feel, what we want or don’t want, or what we intend to do, we may begin sabotaging the relationship, hoping to force the other person to do the difficult work. Those are ways to end relationships, but they are not the cleanest or the easiest ways. As we walk this path of self-care, we learn that when it is time to end a relationship, the easiest way is one of honesty and directness. We are not being loving, gentle, or kind by avoiding the truth, if we know the truth. We are not sparing the other person’s feelings by sabotaging the relationship instead of accepting the end or the change, and doing something about it. We are prolonging and increasing the pain and discomfort—for the other person and ourselves. If we don’t know, if we are on the fence, it is more loving and honest to say that. If we know it is time to terminate a relationship, say that. Endings are never easy, but endings are not made easy by sabotage, indirectness, and lying about what we want and need to do. Say what you need to say, in honesty and love, when it is time. If we are trusting and listening to ourselves, we will know what to say and when to say it.

The End is The Beginning #paulocoehlo #quotes #endingRelationships #endingCareer #endingPhases