#earlyfangirlthoughts

So it literally all started with Bruce Wayne. You probably know the drill: rich kid, parents murdered in a spooky Gotham alleyway, traumatized for life. There may or may not have been some fake pearls bouncing dramatically into a puddle of blood — or maybe Bruce just imagined that part (he’s a dramatic little guy, after all). Either way, he’s now a sad orphan boy, and it’s super tragic.

Luckily, Alfred — the literal best butler in the multiverse — steps up as Bruce’s guardian, and their bond becomes iconic. Sad boy grows up into moody college boy. He’s on track to be a doctor (because of course he is), hanging out with his rich besties Harvey Dent and Oliver Queen. Some people (me. I mean I) headcanon that he was also friends with Harleen Quinzel in school — because they both went to med school in Gotham and, fun fact, they're both Jewish or something, so that tracks.

But then Bruce drops out and goes off to train in, like, the Himalayas or somewhereultra-mysterious. He becomes a peak-level fighter, stealth master, ninja-adjacent vigilante — all the good stuff. But then his trainer's like “kill this guy,” and Bruce is like “ain’t no way, José,” and dips back to Gotham where he becomes... Batman.

Now at this point, the Bat-Family™ is just Batman and his beloved Dad-butler Alfred. But here’s where things start getting messy (read: interesting). Batman starts working with the Gotham City Police Department and becomes semi-besties with Commissioner James Gordon — who, despite being very smart, somehow never figures out Bruce is Batman. While he's not brooding on rooftops, Bruce is busy fixing up Wayne Enterprises to help Gotham — you know, jobs, infrastructure, gadgets, all that CEO-with-a-conscience stuff. That’s when Lucius Fox enters the chat, becoming Batman’s tech guy (and yes, he knows the secret identity). So one day, Bruce goes to the circus for some rich-boy reason and ends up watching the Flying Graysons fall to their deaths — yes, right in front of their son, Richard Grayson. Naturally, Bruce sees another sad orphan boy and goes, “mine now,” and adopts him. Little does the world know that the first Robin was not a sunshine-and-lollipops kind of kid — he was an angry, justice-hungry acrobat who just wanted revenge.

Meanwhile, let’s not forget Barbara Gordon — daughter of the Commissioner — who becomes the first Batgirl. So the Bat-Family now includes: Sad Boy™, his elite-tier butler, his cop friend and said friend’s daughter, his gadget guy, and his newly acquired angry son. A full house!

Now, Bruce tries so hard to be a good dad, but he's... well, he's Batman. So yeah, he's overbearing, emotionally unavailable, and honestly kind of controlling. Eventually, Richard gets tired of it, quits being Robin, and moves to Blüdhaven — which is like Gotham’s lesser-known, Joker-free little sister city.

Now Bruce is Robin-less and sad again. On his parents’ death-iversary, he visits Crime Alley and finds a 12-year-old kid trying to steal the tires off the Batmobile. The kid literally hits Batman with a tire iron, calls him a "boob," and runs. Bruce laughs (huge deal — remember, he's emo), chases the kid down, and finds out his name is Jason Todd. Another orphan! What are the odds?

Jason’s had a rough go: mom OD’d, dad's dead or MIA depending on the canon. Bruce adopts him, and boom — second Robin activated. Jason's the complete opposite of Richard. He’s soft, sweet, a nerd who loves reading and cooking, and genuinely adores being Robin — he calls it “magic.” (I love him. He’s my favorite.)But Richard? Not a fan. He feels like Bruce just replaced him without a second thought. So now we’ve got tension between Robins.

Things take a turn when Jason finds out his birth mom might still be alive. He goes to Ethiopia to find her, even though Bruce is like “DO NOT GO.” But it’s his mom, so of course he goes. Turns out — plot twist — she's working for Joker and sells Jason out. Joker beats him with a crowbar for hours while she watches (while smoking!), then blows up the warehouse. Batman arrives too late. Jason dies. Fans literally voted to kill him off, which is messed up, but whatever. Trauma unlocked.

Now the Bat-Family is deep in angst mode. Alfred: devastated. Bruce: more emo than ever.

Gordon: grieving. Richard and Barbara? Off doing their own thing.

Enter: Tim Drake. Bruce's nosy neighbor, a 9-year-old genius who figures out Batman’s identity and realizes: “Batman needs a Robin or he’s going off the deep end.” He tries to get Richard to come back, but Richard's like “lol no,” so Tim just declares himself Robin. And Bruce… doesn’t say no. And just like that, Tim is Robin #3.

Meanwhile, Barbara gets shot in the spine by Joker and becomes Oracle (a.k.a. the genius behind the chair). Lucius Fox’s son, Luke, becomes Batwing. The Bat-Family expands again.

Stephanie Brown — Tim’s girlfriend — finds out what’s up, becomes a vigilante named Spoiler, and eventually becomes Robin (for like 40 days) before getting fired for being too Jason-coded.

Then she “dies” thanks to Black Mask (but doesn’t actually die — long story).

Then guess what? Jason Todd comes back from the dead. Finds out Joker’s still alive, Bruce didn’t kill him, and Tim replaced him. Naturally, he is pissed. He becomes Red Hood, drops aduffle bag of crime lords' heads at GCPD HQ, and demands Batman kill either him or Joker.

Batman refuses (obviously), throws a Batarang at Jason’s throat, and that’s the last we see of him for a while.

Meanwhile, the villains are also switching sides. Harley Quinn’s basically family now, Poison Ivy is her (very platonic) partner-in-crime, and Catwoman and Batman are falling in love. They even have a daughter in one continuity — Helena Wayne, a.k.a. Huntress.

Surprise: Stephanie didn’t die! A doctor faked her death to teach Bruce a lesson about endangering teens (but did he learn? No). Anyway, the Bat-Family is now massive.

Recap:

Batman: in his ultra emo reformer era

Alfred: eternal king

Jim Gordon: still confused

Oracle: all-seeing eye

Richard: bendy boi in Blüdhaven

Lucius & Luke: tech legends

Tim: in the ICU, probably

Steph: Batgirl 2.0

Jason: angsty and weaponized

Harley & Ivy: platonic life partners (sure)

Catwoman & Huntress: literal fam

Dr. Leslie: on thin fucking ice

Then boom — Talia al Ghul shows up. She’s like “remember that one date we had? Meet your son.” His name is Damian, and he’s 10 years old, raised by assassins, and ready to commit murder immediately. Batman takes him in. Damian instantly kicks Tim out of his Robin spot, and Tim becomes Red Robin (burger not included).

New girl Cassandra Cain arrives: raised to be a weapon, doesn’t talk much, hates killing. She becomes Orphan, then Batgirl, then Black Bat — girl’s got rebrands.

Even more kids appear. Duke Thomas starts the “We Are Robin” movement, becomes The Signal after Batman fosters him (his parents were Joker-gassed). Add in cousins, girlfriends, ex-villains, multiverse versions, and boom — we have a Bat-Family explosion.

Honorable mentions:

Kate Kane (Batwoman): cousin and absolute icon

Bette Kane (Flamebird): her sidekick-ish

Renee Montoya: cop, cool, dating Kate

Harper & Cullen Row: siblings, tasers, vibes

Carrie Kelley: occasionally Robin, always chaotic

Jarro: yes, the sentient starfish. Don’t ask.

Terry McGinnis: future Bat-son from Batman Beyond