For many, Valentineās Day is of the few days you do anything special for your loved one. With family, work, kids, we many times lose sight of keeping the fire of love always burning. With a society that pushes the aspect of making yourself happy and looking for your own happiness, we forget what true love really means. Itās the love Christ showed and gave us which is laying your life for others. Itās the same love people like Archbishop Oscar Romero, Martin Luther King Jr. and St Valentine who was executed giving his life for the church and its people. Itās giving, not receiving. My challenges for everyone are the following; Donāt make valentines one day of the year, make it everyday. Getting gifts or going out to dinner on Valentineās is great but it shouldnāt be reserved for Valentineās. Do it whenever because that person deserves it. Saying I love you isnāt reserved for one day, itās an everyday thing. The details in your relationship depend on you, not the other person. Next: Make your loved one your priority. Keep in mind, you will spend the rest of your life with your spouse. Your children will grow and most likely find someone else to be happy with. Love your children but put your spouse first and make them happy. Thatās the best kind of love your children can see and learn from. And lastly, give and expect nothing in return. This is a hard one. Sometimes, we give and expect to get special treatment or something. The beauty behind true love is giving with all your heart and not expecting to get anything in return. And this is an everyday thing, not just once in a while, or when you feel good. Give and donāt expect. Love is an everyday process. Thank you @anngyfinance_ @anngybel_o fir always demonstrating this. Te amo ā¤ļø #love #loveunconditionally #christlove #dreamtogether #valentines #valentinesday #everyday #lovechallenge #liveforlove #liveforher #liveforhim #jesuslove #onlylove #catholicsaint #catholic #loveforever #beone #married #marriedlife #dreambig #untildeathdouspart #togetherforever (at North Vancouver, British Columbia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CLSV91Yjzeo/?igshid=121hq7326l1g9