#dreamship

♡ — imagine your f/o wiping your tears after a rough day.

you've been stressed. tired. and pushed far past the limits of what someone deserves to go through. that's why, the second they showed up with open arms, you collapsed into their warmth and sobbed your eyes out.

so gentle were their words as they were whispering how it was going to be okay, their hand patting your back, and their body leaning against yours.

when you pull away and look them in the eye, they smile ever so slightly and cup your cheek to wipe away the stray tears that fell from your face. "it'll be okay," they start, pressing a kiss against the corner of your eye, "i'm still here."

divider @/essthereal

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Someone’s sharing status with their f/os does not determine how serious they are about them.

I feel like there’s this assumption in the Selfship community that sharing = less serious and nonsharing = more serious, and that’s just… not entirely true. I’ve seen people who share and are incredibly dedicated and emotionally invested in their f/os, and I’ve also seen people who are nonsharing but treat selfshipping more casually, like a hobby rather than something deeper like fictosexuality and etc.

Everyone approaches their sharing status and what it means differently, and that doesn’t make one way “better” or more valid than another. Also some Selfshippers share as a way to cope with doubles too, so keep that in mind as well!

˚₊۶ৎ˙⋆ — a reminder for villain yume/selfshipper and riako/gachikoi, it's valid to love your flawed horrible fictional other. it's okay to love them despite of their crimes nonetheless. it's okay to acknowledge what they've done and still love them, not actually condone their actions. it's okay to love them deeply instead just love for the funsie.

( but that ain't means you can love a racist, rapist, pedophilic, an absolutely violence abuser, ... there's the difference of unrealistic villains and absolutely "judge holden" represented mf btw)

I will be hosting a fun yume exchange event after my exams are over, where it’s basically a “secret Santa” type of thing, exchanging any sort of yume-related gift anonymously. all sorts of creatives are welcome, from writing to art to moodboards, I’ll include a lot of options in the submission form. but here’s the catch; I wanted to set a theme, and not make it too big (as in having too many participants), since I may or may not have to manage the whole event by myself, soooo…if you wanna participate, you must have an f/o who’s from a video game. any game works, I’m not picky. it doesn’t matter if that character is your main f/o or not, but the gift will revolve around your ship with that character! anyways likes and reblogs are very much appreciated, I hope this gets some reach, just so I can know that people want to participate. also, I’d appreciate it even more if you can tell me who your f/o is and what game are they from in the replies or through tags! alr that’s all!