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Alone With You.

First, I would like to state that I am not an astrologer. I’m writing this description or whatever you’d like to call this because I created a playlist based on this synastry overlay. My process of creating playlists is like an author writing a book. For this reason I wanted to write this short story (or whatever you’d like to call this) to explain my song choices into my own words based off of the research I did on the Sun being in someone’s twelfth house. If you have any experience with this overlay or if you are an astrologer, let me know your thoughts and experience because I genuinely am interested.

The conscious (Sun) in your unconscious (Twelfth House).

The Sun person lights up the unconscious of the Twelfth House person. This overlay has the potential to create growth, deep intimacy, and the experience of unconditional love. Because the Sun person lights up the unconscious of the Twelfth House person, the Twelfth House person may be very uncomfortable and suspicious of the Sun person. As a result of this, the Twelfth House person may try to keep their distance, yet they still feel a strange pull to the Sun person. These actions by the Twelfth House person may make them appear mysterious to the Sun person and thus a pull to want to know more. Based on my research, it is vital that the Sun person has good intentions and is mindful of the way that they treat the Twelfth House person. It is also vital that the Twelfth House person stops running away from themselves because by them making friends with their own unconscious, this synastry overlay may not be as scary as it seems.

Okay, now to get into the playlist I created and the story it tells based off of this synastry overlay. The playlist (can be found by pressing the link at the bottom of this post) contains 5 songs put all together to create a 17 minute long vibe with the subtitle “Alone With You.”

To kick off this playlist I used the song Santorini Coffee by melvitto. It starts off with the line, “I know what you want baby, I know what need mama.” I felt like this was perfect to start it off because the Sun person has a sort of knowing about the Twelfth House person that can feel as if they’ve been spying on them. So the first song is basically from the Sun persons perspective. Then comes the lines, “Everything you do you got me oh so into you. Me I’m feeling you, me I wonder. How did I find you? Where did I find you? Where did you come from? Can I follow you?” I feel like this is emphasizing the mysterious nature that the Twelfth House person can seem to have to the Sun person and them wanting to know more.

The second song is On the Low by Burna Boy. The first line to stand out to me when it comes to this playlist topic is, “You know I feel a vibe, you feel a vibe.” The reason why is because I feel it can represent the strange, yet powerful pull the Sun and the Twelfth House person feels towards one another. This next line I feel can be a representation of how the Twelfth House person feels, “Why you want to dey question me like an interview.” I feel like because the Sun person in this playlist is genuinely really interested in the Twelfth House person and has good intentions, it can come across as if they’re overbearing in a sense and the Twelfth House person is like uhhh can you leave me alone and like back up lol. Then the chorus of this song is the same as the title and this can represent the hidden nature of the relationship. From the research I did, it was mentioned that this synastry overlay can be cause for a relationship that takes place behind the scenes or in this case “On the Low”. Talk about sneaky link except with all the feels lol.

The third song is in French and I will translate the lines that I describe to English. This song is Doucement by Ronisia and doucement translates to slowly in English. I feel like the title of the song kind of represents the pace that this synastry overlay should probably go at, although it may not. Based off of my research, I personally would take a relationship like this slowly because although it may feel so intimate and maybe even telepathic, a relationship that lights up the unconscious should be handled with care and patience, but that’s just my opinion. The lines, “J'sais qu'c'est dur ouais, j'sais qu'c'est dur. Ah nan c'est pas la peine de penser aux autres.” Translates to “I know it's hard yeah, I know it's hard. Ah no it's not worth thinking of others.” To me, the “I know it’s hard” line speaks for itself, that this synastry overlay can be difficult, but the “it’s not worth thinking of others line” is kind of saying like hey, through the hardships we can get through this so what’s the point in focusing on other people? Let’s just focus on us and overcome these hardships together. The next line is, “Dans ma tête, y a que toi, j'connais pas les autres.” and this translates in English to, “In my head, there's only you, I don't know the others.” And this continues on from the last line and my interpretation of it, but I feel like it can also describe another thing that came up during my research which is how the Sun person can appear in the Twelfth House persons dreams and in a way infiltrate their mind. The third line from this song that stood out to me, “Tes défauts, j'ai pas l'temps d'm'y arrêter.” And this translates in English to, “Your flaws, I don't have time to stop there.” This I feel represents the unconditional love that this synastry overlay has the potential to gain if given the chance. Loving someone for being imperfectly pure, but at the same time maybe also brushing over their insecurities and idealizing one another, which was mentioned during my research.

The fourth song takes us back to the English language and is titled Meet Me in Amsterdam by RINI. The first line that stands out to me is, “There ain’t no sunshine, no sunshine where I was before. But I found the Love, the warmth in your arms.” Although the line “your arms” is mentioned, I kept it in this description because in my opinion without it the, “But I found the Love” line would look odd. But for me, when it comes to this synastry overlay, this line is representing the Twelfth House person and the Sun person lighting up their unconscious mind. And them learning to love the things that they pushed away and ran away from, the things that they once refused to confront about themselves and make friends with. The Sun person helped teach them to love those parts of themselves. Another line from this song is, “When I saw her in my dreams, never thought it meant a thing.” This line kind of continues on from the last song, the Sun person appearing in the Twelfth House persons dreams and basically infiltrating their mind, I feel like the next line I’m about to emphasize will tie into the “never thought it meant a thing” line, that being from the outro, “If there is a next time, Meet me in Amsterdam.” I said this ties in because the twelfth house person as mentioned before can be very suspicious and can throw mixed signals (emphasis on the IF from the line “If there is a next time.”) to the Sun person because this synastry overlay can be scary for them, which is why I recommend taking it slowly/doucement.

And finally the last song, also the namesake of the subtitle of this playlist is Alone With You by Alina Baraz. I believe in Happily Ever Afters so for me, this song was the perfect Happily Ever After to describe my Sun in the twelfth house synastry overlay playlist. For this song I’m not going to emphasize whether it’s the Sun person or the Twelfth House person feeling this way, I’m just going to say this is them now unified. From the first verse of this song, “You're feelin' a way, baby, I feel it too. You don't gotta tell me about it, we could dance around it, we could rendez-vous.” I feel like this is just perrrfect lol, like you’re so connected that you feel how the other person feels and you’re not forcing them to get it off their chest, we’re just going to “rendez-vous”. Next line, “I'm overprotective, baby, we're connected. Gotta get you out of this mood” this line to me just continues on from the previous and finding ways to cheer the other up to help get them out of the funk. The third line of emphasis from this song for this playlist is, “Breathin' life into you.” To me, this is breathing life into the unconscious, the unconscious becoming conscious as a result of this synastry overlay. This next line was a big one for me, “I've grown with you, Yet our love stays the same.” This to me represents the growth that both individuals encounter as a result of this relationship, yet the unconditional love that they feel for one another never stunted. It’s them growing as individuals, yet still having each other through the thick and the thin. Fifth line of emphasis from this song for this playlist, “Look at you and I see versions of me that I need.” This I feel represents the idealism that this type of relationship can entail. Like you’re so fascinated by one another, that you feel like you need that person in your life so that maybe you can soak up some of their greatness and one day you can be as great as you think they are.

Now let’s end it with “Alone With You.” To me, this is what Sun in the twelfth house synastry overlay is. Being alone with that one person. Nobody else involved, maybe even nobody else knowing that you two are involved with one another. Literally, just, Alone With You, living Happily Ever After…

Added June 11, 2024: I’m listening to H.E.R.’s album and this song comes up that I totally forgot the existence of and this post and playlist came to mind. I thought I’d add it to the playlist because I feel as if it ties together the story told through the original songs mentioned in this post. If you’d like to listen to the playlist in full, the link can be found by clicking the link after the added song. :)

Bonne soirée 💟 😊 🆕️