thinking abt like, what I'd do if I was taking care of a little who's self conscious about using regression gear... bc my first thought is "well what if I do something in-between first to show it's okay?"

don't want to use a sippy cup even though u could spill? how about I get us no spill water bottles and we can both use those?

don't want to take a nap? that's okay, I do want to take a nap though, can you hang out with me while I nap? you can color or do anything else, and if you end up wanting to too, you can join me!

worried about wearing padding to make sure you don't have an accident? it's okay, you can put it in the same place I put my jumbo pads! there's not really much of a difference when you think about it, we can be two cool cats taking care of ourselves together!

do you want warm milk while we're out but don't want people to think it's weird? let's get steamers then! see, it can't be that weird if I'm getting one too

you don't need to worry about it if I'm there, because I'm never going to judge and I'll be right there if someone else does. It's okay to want to do little things, even if you aren't quite there yet!

For pride month 2026, I’ll be taking requests for queer stimboards! They can be inspired by a flag, an alignment, a spectrum, anything! Happy pride!

when the lamb loves the wolf