GROWTH MOMENT: Brown men and disability awareness stories
Last night two young "Christian" men preaching about healing and judgement day on my way home said to me verbatim: "We saw you walking and noticed it's something wrong with your legs. What's wrong with "them"? And what’s your name?
ME: Hey, how y'all doing? I’m Jay.
Two young men responded: You know, God will "heal" you, and you'll be "cured." You know Judgement Day coming too, right??!
ME: Oh. Naw there's nothing wrong with me. I'm disabled and I am just FINE as I am. I don’t need a “cure.”
Also ME: Yes and I am preparing for Judgment Day...
THEM: Do you Believe in God?
ME: Yes. I'm quite spiritual, not religious, and God loves me just the way I am.
THEM: .... Shared a few born- again stories...
ME (listening) as the bus pulled up: Sorry fellas, but I really gotta catch this bus. Nice talking to y'all. God Bless.
I held my ground without lashing out, despite the blatant ableism that is still rampant within various churches and from so- called believers. I guess I am coming along.
NOTE for my beautiful black and brown disabled advocates, churchgoers and close friends: Please do me a favor and tell these "evangelizing" FOOLS we ain't looking for no cure, and that disabled folks ARE HUMANS that fight to live in peace and with more love and justice! Some folks just don't know SWAG when they see it! Much Love. J.














