It's especially difficult to manage ARFID when your food reactions are unpredictable (and in my case, have gone up to anaphylaxis in the past). Or the act of digesting itself is a struggle for your body, puts strain in your system, and no matter what you eat it always makes you feel at least a little sick.

(mostly in situations when i'm not able to hide my pain and stress anymore);

"don't complain about reality, just accept it",

"if u don't like xyz thing about how the world treats u, then that's ur problem, i don't need to hear about it",

"pain is normal it means u are alive so maybe try being more grateful for it",

"we can't help u if u don't know what could help u, just solve it on ur own before asking for help",

"it's ur choice to eat food that hurts u. no, i can't provide other food for u, don't expect too much",

"i already do so much for u, why can't u be normal for once in return?",

"i would feel sick too if i lived with smelly animals in my room. u are hurting urself and ur pet",