#deep words

Someone's intimacy isn't found when everything is going good with you and they stay, like you have your life figured out, your career is set, you are healthy, everything is going smooth. Anyone can be with you. Even if you ask a millionaire to be your friend they will not refuse even. But when you are lost, when you don't know what's going in your life. When you are still figuring things and someone staying with you, someone being loyal at that time is what true intimacy sounds. Don't tell me they are in love with you when you have everything figured out. That's not love that's mere attraction to things associated with you.

The literal meaning of the word "relationship" is the way in which two people are connected. But if we define it differently - then it's more like a ship, if it sinks, it will sink as a whole, and if it floats it will float as a whole. One part of ship won't tell the other part, "you sink and I won't". No! Whatever happens, happens mutually. Thats what true intimacy means. If you are in a relationship, then your opponent has to be with you, whether you are on the ground or touching the sky, whether you are in your highs or lows. You cannot love your opponent on a conditional basis. If it's true Intimacy, then it's strong else it's a toxic shit that needs to be let go of.

It takes a ton of efforts to convince someone and fall for that person. But, it takes fraction of a second to break the same bond that was built over years. Before you decide to break it, give it one more thought because not every body carries the same soul that you were bestowed with. Stay a little longer :)

If I am supposed to furnish a connection with someone, I am the one who will put everything aside for building it from scratch. Yes, I can put aside my assignments, lectures and every important work, to make this connection more intimate. I will stop focusing on random things, I'll be so close that I will try to find every answer from this conversation, to my otherwise unanswered questions. I will not use any filter, whatever I am, who I am, I will put everything on the table. I will be so genuine that you can read me like a book, from start to end. This is the core criteria that I will use for furnishing a bond!!