hi! i have an oc who progressively loses her hearing at a relatively fast pace (meniere's disease in both ears)-- how to subtly indicate losing hearing across a period of time in writing? (apart from "constantly mishearing things" gag)
Hi!
Sensory details are going to be key in representing this type of experience. Meniere's can take years for permanent hearing loss to occur, so I don't know if that's really "relatively fast" as far as progressive hearing loss.
One major thing to consider is episodic (sudden, temporary) hearing loss, which occurs alongside Meniere's vertigo attacks, and is definitely an easy way to practice your auditory sensory details. I don't have Meniere's (at least, I haven't been diagnosed with it) but I do have sudden hearing shifts that worsen my vertigo. It literally feels like one side of your head just shuts down. There's a sort of rush and then everything on that side is just quiet, and the whole world tilts to that side as well. It's pretty disconcerting!
For the more subtle permanent hearing loss, a decrease in background sensory details (electronics humming, cars going by, wind, background chatter, etc), accompanied by an increase in tinnitus, plus the auditory processing piece of missing words in sentences, can show a slow loss of hearing.
If your writing style isn't big on describing background sounds, missing words in conversations is going to be the most obvious descriptor. It's not really a gag unless it's specifically played up to be a joke, or only for humorous, low-stakes misunderstandings. People mishear things, and deaf/hard-of-hearing people mishear or miss things much more frequently, due to having an auditory disability. It's an incredibly frustrating experience, but much less so when the people around us are willing to accommodate.
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