It's hard to live in the kind of society that we live in today....full of stereotyping, "perfect" image, competition and jealousy.
When insecuritie gets involved that's when it gets even harder. Theres so many people out there these days, and there isn't any you can trust. And today we get judged for who are, what we do and how we look.
I wear men's clothes, im not tall and skinny and wear loads of make up so I get called butch. I leave my face as natural as possible and get judged as ugly because I haven't plastered it with chemicals and silicon to cover it up and hide my imperfections. If I cover up I look tomboy, if you wear a moderate amount of clothing when it's hot I get judged as a slag. And if I have my stomach on show I am seen as over weight and not skinny enough to wear such things.
People are so judge mental these days about others yet when they get judged by they get offended and defensive.
And when these issues become mixed up with insecurity and jealousy that's when it gets hard. As it can cause anxiety, overthinking, issues within and without.
And due to these things, insecurity is a major flaw, and it's something that is hard to get past. And then when it then continues on and makes you feel like you ain't good enough, that your easy to throw away, that you aren't anything special, that your just bother girl.
