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A soulmate isn’t someone who completes you. No, a soulmate is someone who inspires you to complete yourself. A soulmate is someone who does not judge you for your flaws. A soulmate is someone who sees your jagged edges, who sees the parts of you that have been weathered by love and my life, who sees the wars that you fight, and who chooses to stand beside you. A soulmate is someone who watches as you confront your scars from the inside; always encouraging you to heal on your own time, in your own way; always encouraging you to keep going. A soulmate is someone who challenges you to challenge yourself. Someone who sees the potential that courses through your bones, and who lets you know exactly what you are capable of. They help you to open your eyes, to come to terms with the fact that you are powerful beyond measure. They see you in ways that you have never been able to see yourself, and they are not afraid to inspire you until you finally see it too. See, a soulmate is someone who is not afraid of your growth. They do not feel the need to close you off, to protect you from becoming as big as you were always meant to be. They do not feel inadequate when they see you soar when they see something new within your spark. A soulmate is someone who will never vilify you for changing, for doing the things you have always held yourself back from doing because a soulmate knows that you are building yourself into someone you are proud of, and that is so beautiful to them — that is what they have always hoped for you. So no, a soulmate does not complete you — they inspire you to complete yourself. A soulmate is a person who supports your direction, who motivates and encourages you to stretch, to change, to reinvent yourself until you are happy. A soulmate is someone who loves you with so much conviction, and so much heart, that it is nearly impossible to doubt just how capable you are of becoming exactly who you have always wanted to be.

If you don't tell people what is on your mind, what you want, what you don't want, and what hurts you, etc, you'll be in for a bad time... Also, if you DON'T want some thing don't be afraid to speak up. So many girls have uncomfortable experiences because they don't want to hurt someone's feelings or are otherwise afraid to say no.⠀ ⠀ #selflove #powerandpurpose #dailylove #atticus #love #coach #lover #health #yoga #respost #grateful #gratitude #purpose #biohack #biohacker #personalgrowth #attitudeofgratitude #dailygratitude #highervibrations #followyourbliss #trauma #traumahacking #relationshipadvice #traumahacker #mindfulness #spirituality #personaldevelopment #growth https://www.instagram.com/p/B2tRlhdAAQB/?igshid=1ola3lorvi3km

“I’m jealous of the moon because she knows all of your 5am secrets and your sheets that get to touch every part of you as you fall asleep. But the sun, she is the luckiest of all. When you’re half asleep, groggy and painfully unaware of how beautiful you look, she kisses your lips with light.” #dailylove #sonnenuntergangunddu (hier: Friedrichstraße)

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When you love someone, you shouldn’t hold back your tears in order to seem like you’re fine. You shouldn’t avoid talking about serious topics because you are worried about sparking an argument. You shouldn’t bottle up your emotions because you are nervous to tell them what you want from them, what you need from them, what you expect from them.⁠⠀ When you love someone, you have to be blunt with them. You shouldn’t give them the silent treatment until they guess what is bothering you. You shouldn’t expect them to read your mind. You should sit them right down to talk out your feelings, to express what has been going through your mind, because they are never going to guess. Playing games is only a waste of your time. It will only prolong the argument. It will only give your anger a chance to build and build until you explode.⁠⠀ When you love someone, the last thing you want to do is make them feel bad about themselves, but you have to let them know when you are upset with them, when you are angry with them, when you are annoyed with them. You have to give them the truth even when it hurts — but do so in a mature, respectful manner. You shouldn’t start screaming at them. You shouldn’t start making accusations.⁠⠀ You should aim to get your point across without acting too combative, too stubborn, too passionate, because they probably never meant to hurt you. They probably didn’t even realize you were hurt until you said something. That is why you have to speak up. You have to be upfront about your emotions.⁠⠀ If you pretend everything is fine when you are secretly annoyed, then your person will never realize they’ve done something wrong. They will continue to make the same mistakes again and again because they won’t realize it was a mistake.⁠⠀ You might think you are helping the relationship by letting problems slide, but you are actually doing yourself a disservice. You shouldn’t hold back your emotions because you are worried about causing drama or starting a fight. You should release those emotions in order to improve your relationship, in order to grow stronger as a team.⁠⠀

One day, if you haven’t already, you’re going to meet someone and immediately realize that you’ve found a soul friend. She’s the friend that you can message at any time of the day and you’ll surely get a reply. She’s the friend that will leave you a random message saying that you should make sure not to do anything too crazy and that she’s always there if you need anyone to talk to. She’s the friend that will tell you to text her when you get home so she knows that you arrived safely. She’s the friend that lets you gush about the guy you’re crushing on, but laughs at you because you two have never even spoken. She’s the friend that reminds you that you can do anything as long as you have the guts to go for it. She’s the friend that you can talk to about your dreams. She’s the friend that will laugh at you when you fall but is also the first one to pick you up. She’s the friend that will tell you that she’ll punch the air out of the boy who keeps on hurting you. She’s the friend that will tell you that it’s all going to be okay. She’s the friend that always says she loves you and shows it with every action. She’s the friend that knows everything you’ve been through. She’s the friend that knows your deepest, darkest secrets but never judges you. She’s the friend that reminds you that you deserve so much better. She’s the friend that always says, “I got you,” and actually means it. She’s the friend that tells you that you are strong and that she believes in you. She’s the friend that reminds you to eat when you’re too busy to remember on your own. She’s the friend that tells you that true friendship can’t be measured by how long you’ve known each other. She’s the friend that made you believe you can do anything. If you’re lucky enough to have this person in your life already — thank them, for it makes growing up and getting hurt and falling in love and simply just being, so much easier, so much more manageable, when you have someone like that by your side.

Don’t date the boy who sends you mixed signals. The boy who compliments you one day, who acts interested in you one day, and then disappears for the next three days. Instead, date the boy who wants the world to know that you’re together. Who invites you to holiday parties so you can meet his cousins. Who holds your hand during dates so everyone knows you’re a couple. Who brags about you to all of his friends because he can’t believe he got so lucky. Date the boy who makes his feelings for you obvious. The boy who isn’t afraid to admit that he is attracted to you, that he misses you when you aren’t around, that he wants to spend more time with you. Date the boy who is honest with you, even if it’s hard for him. The boy who will tell you the truth, because he believes you deserve to hear it. The boy who won’t hide his feelings. Date the boy who is unafraid of labels. Who will make it clear he’s asking you on a date instead of casually referring to it as hanging out. The boy who will introduce you as his girlfriend instead of acting like you’re just a friend. Date the boy who is willing to be vulnerable with you. Who will tell you about the time that he got his heartbroken? Who will let himself cry in front of you? Who will reveal the parts of himself that he keeps hidden from the rest of the world? Date the boy who isn’t afraid of his love for you, who isn’t afraid to commit to you. The boy who is serious about spending forever with you. Date the boy who reminds you how much he cares every single day. The boy who kisses your forehead before bed and your lips before you leave for work. The boy who reaches out to touch you every time you get close enough. The boy who makes me love you a daily phrase. Date the boy who never makes you doubt his feelings for you. Who never makes you question whether he’s happy or not, whether he’s getting bored or is still invested. The boy who everyone can tell loves you as deeply as you love him.