Iâve been seeing increasingly more posts lately about daily devotion, rituals or rites (or work in general) being unnecessary or even performative within witchcraft, deity work and demonolatry. The concept that you donât actually have to do anything or prove yourself in any way to receive responses or to have a relationship.
âI havenât ____ for/with Lucifer in months but it doesnât matter because this path is mine and I decide what happens.â
I appreciate this sentiment in essence. The idea that you donât have to prove yourself, that you are already worthy enough is very Luciferian. It is very helpful to beginners who are anxious about not doing enough. You do deserve a response, and Lucifer himself has never demanded worship or engagement. He would never imply that anything is mandatory.
I think this line of thinking can also be a severe shoot in the foot that can greatly impact the depth of your relationship and priority with your deity. Yes, Lucifer values independence, but he also values initiative and growth. A spirit like Lucifer may respond even without âproof,â but the quality and depth of that response will likely match the level of investment.
This âyouâre already enoughâ principle is a necessary antidote to rigid dogma, but itâs meant as a starting point, not an end point. The âdangerâ in the philosophy is when people stay in the comfort of this reassurance and never progress to active, self-chosen discipline.
Iâm going to keep talking about Lucifer specifically because he is my Patron.
Intentions and thoughts are important, possibly the most important step. Iâm not claiming that your relationship is less legitimate if you donât do XYZ every single day. I donât do XYZ every single day, I at the very least reserve some time and thought for Lucifer. That doesnât always have to manifest as a ritual or working.
This is a relationship. Lucifer is a teacher. Intentions truly are not everything, and yes, there is work. It is a craft. Actions matter. It wonât all be exciting or enjoyable.
Lucifer wonât punish laziness, but he will match your energy level. The rituals are not there for performance, the rites are not litmus tests, they are initiations. Working with demons is not the same as entertaining imaginary friends. You certainly can entertain imaginary friends, nothing wrong with that, but that simply is not the same occult practice of demon work most demonolaters are describing. Itâs not just for aesthetics. The rituals themselves are the point, they unlock specific lessons and energies that canât be accessed through casual thought alone. They are metaphysical actions that literally open doors to states of being, energies, and entities.
It is 100% your choice as to the type and depth of the relationship you want to have with your spirits. No one is required to take Lucifer on as anything they do not wish to. I do not believe Lucifer would ever ignore or turn away from someone for ânot doing enoughâ.
But if you are consistently not engaging with him, heâs not going to engage with you either. Lucifer reflects back the seriousness or superficiality you bring. If your pursuit of him is strictly for enjoyment and entertainment, then he will treat you as such. Do you take him seriously? Do you value his lessons and principles? Do you want him to help you change? Or do you simply want to hang out with him from time to time?
Be honest with yourself, no answer is wrong, they simply lead to different destinations. Both are valid, but you must own which one youâve chosen instead of expecting a casual approach to produce deep results.
If I made a post about how I never really talk to my boyfriend, I donât dedicate the time to spend with him, I never really try to show him that I care. I donât put in any effort, and what little effort I do put in must be enough, or else heâs expecting too much of me, you might ask me: âDo you even like this guy? Do you even like being in a relationship?â
Do you consider those people you only see once a month at most to be your closest friends? Would you care if your partner ghosted you for weeks at a time?
That person you just met, how likely are you to become their friend if you only see them on mild occasion? How deep are your conversations going to get if you never really talk?
In occult terms, this is about attunement. The more consistent contact, the more attuned the energetic connection.
Lucifer has never demanded of me that I do anything, he certainly didnât in the beginning. But now that Iâm in the point in our relationship where he trusts me and takes me seriously, he will remind me. Remind because he knows I already want to do it. I am already deeply committed to this path. And even when Iâm being a brat or feeling lazy, he will encourage me. Not because it is my obligation, because he wants to continue to cultivate the fire that weâve been fuelling together. So yes, even when I donât exactly want to, Lucifer will still give me tasks and homework. Part of my trust in him is recognizing that it is for my own good, even if it is inconvenient. Lucifer isnât here to be convenient.
Is spending time with those who I am genuinely interested in an obligation? No. You are not obligated to do anything.
Will I be able to form meaningful relationships with those I am interested in if I donât put consistent effort into them? Also no. I am not obligated to talk to my boyfriend every day, I just want to.
So whenever I hear âyou donât have to do anything at all, Lucifer will still like you.â I somewhat agree. Lucifer may still like you as one likes a vague aquaintence. He may see you as a fan, he may appreciate your company from time to time. But you are communicating to him quite plainly that your pursuit is not initiation, or the work. So he simply will not initiate it. Liking you â initiating you into mysteries. Pleasantry is free, transmission of power and knowledge is earned.
I would not know a 10th of what Iâve learned about Lucifer and myself if I did not put the effort into those rituals. I simply could not achieve this depth if I had not swam deeper. You are perfectly allowed to float on the surface. Just do not be confused that you canât see coral.
If ritual is dismissed as âperformative,â the practitioner is potentially rejecting one of the most effective ways to tune into the energetic frequency needed for deeper contact. Lucifer himself doesnât require ritual for validation, but ritual helps the human, not him. It creates coherence between body, mind, and spirit, making higher-dimensional exchange smoother. Just like you canât hear certain notes until an instrument is tuned, you canât receive certain transmissions until your energy has been shaped to match his. Ritual deepens skill, connection, and love for the work.
The reason why rituals and rites and work is so important within demonolatry and this sphere of occultism is because, well⌠Lucifer is the light bringer. He wants to reveal and educate. He wants to dance with passion and intrigue. Shadow work is infinitely important to these spirits, possibly the most important thing. And if you are constantly avoiding the work in favour of the fun, if you quit because itâs getting too tedious, you wonât be ignored, but you also wonât be rewarded.
These rituals and devotional actions arenât to prove loyalty or legitimacy. You arenât proving yourself to Lucifer, youâre engaging in a dialogue. If everything must be your terms, your way, only when you want to in the way that is most comfortable for you, you arenât seeking a relationship with another spirit, youâre seeking a comfortable pass time, and you want him to be your entertainer.
Rituals are not mandatory, but practicing painting is not mandatory either. Will you be better at painting and create more paintings in general if you do practice? Yes. Will your art teacher be pleased with your commitment? Yes. Will you learn more about art, will your passions grow? All yes.
You do not have to practice to be allowed to paint. You can just paint when you want to and call it a day. Awesome. Just donât be upset when you finally do come to class and your teacher simply isnât impressed.
Disappointed? Probably not. But also not impressed. Donât be surprised when the critique is poor understanding of fundamentals.
Fruits but no labor? Flowers but no rain? Wine but no grapes? Why do you think you are entitled to that? Because you showed up and asked?
What you deserve is a response, to be dignified. But what you must earn is that connection. Just as you do with every other spirit- human or otherwise- that you interact with.
When I read these posts that go on about how little folks commit, it reads to me like bragging about not giving a fuck. Saying âyeah I wish I could dedicate more time to Lucifer but work is just too hectic right nowâ is totally absolutely understandable and valid. There will definitely be times that there is some distance between you, that is very natural and necessary.
But saying âI havenât been able to do anything in months but it doesnât matter because Lucifer doesnât care,â only communicates that he simply is not a part of your conscious life and actions. Heâs an after thought that is interacted with when it is convenient. Which again, is fine, but not intimate and not initiatory.
You can think vaguely about anything or anyone. I think about my boyfriend all day, that in itself is not substitute for conversation. Yes the spirits are spirits and can be accessed through thought, but thought is the playground, the building block, the house, not the bread. You still have to cook the bread. Your actions are your thoughts and intentions manifested in the physical world. That matters.
I understand that most people do not have the free time to dedicate to a ritual, thatâs completely understandable. But designating and finding time is an act of devotion in itself. Compromise is an act of devotion, especially if youâre in the broom closet.
If I always told my boyfriend I was too busy for him, he would start to wonder if heâs a priority in my life. If I never show up to class, my professor might give my seat to someone else whoâs actually going to show up and use it.
I only have one Patron for this reason. My dedication to Lucifer is very consuming, I simply do not have the time to prioritize multiple patrons. And thatâs fine, it means my relationship with the one guy I have chosen is extremely strong. I could try to collect them all like PokĂŠmon or I could put real attention into what I already have in front of me.
And donât get me wrong. I do work with and worship multiple other deities. But they arenât my priority, and thatâs perfectly okay. There is nothing wrong with having a dominant and a non dominant hand. Itâs healthy and effective to channel your energy intentionally rather than spreading it equally everywhere.
And to reiterate, I am not insisting that devotion needs to take place every single day. But consistently? Absolutely. Repeatedly? Yes. With conscious effort? Most definitely, thatâs how the channel stays open. Every personâs path is different, but it is still a path. If you donât walk, you wonât be dragged back to the beginning. But you wonât see whatâs around the corner.
Bare minimum effort garners bare minimum results, thatâs just the law of equivalent exchange.
Your craft is your own and it is absolutely your choice as to what you want to do with it. But once you invite another party into the circle, the craft is no longer just your own. It is no a co-creation of two wills. I think it is just as important to consider their boundaries and wishes as much as it is to stay firm in yours. Spirit work is co-creative, not a solo hobby with an imaginary friend.
If daily devotion is just not going to work, try to set up a schedule, weekly, only on Fridays- whatever actually sticks. Itâs not an obligation, itâs a habit. Try to find days where you can take even just 30 minutes to consciously focus. Read books in small chunks. It doesnât all have to be super serious and hard. Canât do a ritual? Understandable, we all have lives. Light a candle while you shower. Canât light a candle? Aw that sucks, try to practice saying that enn you were trying to remember. Canât remember? Too busy? Look it up on your lunch break. Small acts build up. Make it your own, make it fun.
Itâs not about bowing to a deityâs authority, itâs about building a stable channel for deeper communion.
But if your angle is constantly âthatâs too hard, thatâs too inconvenient, thatâs uncomfortable, thatâs too tedious, that doesnât matter,â then youâll be correct. It wonât matter, and you will never access the secrets, mysteries, and lessons contained within those acts.
