oughhhhhh i have to go to an event today and its exciting and cool but also fucking terrifying because the last queer/trans shit i found locally like 6 years ago turned out to be some of the most gossipy bitches imaginable and i unfortunately fell victim TWICE to getting burned by that, the second time happened immediately after they'd apologised for the first time 🤡 mans could not stop playing the game of telephone that includes "haha just make shit up about a lonely autistic trans woman behind her back"
hell even the individual queers ive met locally have tried to fucking abuse me l o l, i am not very trusting of queers irl anymore. on account of my Experiences™️
i legitimately hate the welsh trans scene lol. deep distaste. all my friends dropped out and moved to scotland or london as soon as they could. multiple times over and over. thats why im left 🥲
also no fuck you the only bra i own is a sports bra that doesn't fit clothes shopping gives me anxiety still despite being THIRTEEN FUCKING YEARS INTO TRANSITION 😩 i am going braless. at some point i stg ill just fucking make one.
sidenote if you are in london or manchester i used to work for a nonprofit that made a discovery tool for trans friendly events. no longer affiliated buuuut you should check it out
https://transdimension.uk/
as i understand it it's kind of rotting gently due to lack of funding, lol. but it should still be good for a while.
e: did i mention everyone still uses facebook or instagram for organizing like its 2012 and they both have MAJOR vendor lock-in so exporting that shit to a calendar is actively impossible. shit sucks
