people have a tendency to think stalking is bad
this is impossible
it is only bad if you do something bad with it. you could also do something kind or courteous; you just have to be extremely gentle, respectful, and not act entitled to othersΒΉ. i don't know if most people have the necessary skill but it's functionally possible
for example, finding someone's address and sending them a gift would be bad. if they want gifts they'll have a throne. it would make most people feel scared. but writing a poem where they might see it one day without demanding it is both just and moral
ΒΉyou can feel entitled to others if you like, but there's no reason for that to by iota change your behavior
your love is purer than you think













