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🚨 Breaking News: Modern women have declared all men are trash but magically only seem to be fcking and chasing the SAME five toxic motherfckers.

If men are so horrible, why do you keep f*cking them?

If masculinity is "toxic," why does your p*ssy still get wet for it?

If "nice guys" are the answer, why do you call them boring?

Maybe men aren’t the problem. Maybe you’re just bad at picking.

For centuries, men were men, women were women, and nobody had a damn identity crisis about it.

Now? Every other kid on TikTok is suddenly “non-binary.”

We went from “I’m a person” to “I’m an ethereal genderless spirit creature” in record time.

Why?

Because most of these people aren’t actually non-binary.

They’re just bored.

“Non-Binary” Is A Trend, Not A Reality

Let’s look at the numbers, because math doesn’t give a fuck about feelings.

In 2014, less than 0.5% of people in the U.S. identified as non-binary or genderfluid.

By 2021, that number skyrocketed to 5%—a 900% increase in less than a decade.

Among Gen Z? Over 25% claim to be “somewhere on the gender spectrum.”

Let me ask you something:

Did human biology change overnight?

Did evolution pull a U-turn in the last decade?

Or—and hear me out—is it more likely that being non-binary just became trendy?

Because if we’re suddenly seeing millions of people “discover” a gender identity crisis that literally never existed before, we need to ask:

👉 Is this real? 👉 Or is this just people desperate for attention?

The Non-Binary “Awakening” Is Just Tumblr 2.0

Back in the 2010s, this exact same pattern happened with:

“Pansexuality” (which, let’s be real, is just bisexual with extra steps)

“Otherkin” (people who insisted they were animals in human bodies)

“Demisexuality” (congratulations, you need an emotional connection to have sex—you’re just a normal person)

What happened?

It died off. Because it wasn’t real.

But gender? That’s the new hot trend.

And why wouldn’t it be?

You get instant validation online.

You get a special identity without having to achieve anything.

You get to be oppressed without having to actually experience hardship.

Who needs a personality when you can just claim a new gender every week and demand applause for it?

99% Of “Non-Binary” People Still Magically Align With Their Birth Sex

Let’s talk about how convenient this trend is.

Non-binary “men”—still act and dress like men.

Non-binary “women”—still act and dress like women.

You ever notice that?

They’ll scream at you that they’re not male or female, but 99% of them still look and behave like their birth sex.

They don’t transition. They don’t take hormones. They don’t change their physical presentation.

They just throw on a they/them pronoun in their bio and expect the world to rearrange itself around their new, fragile identity.

Because the truth is?

👉 They don’t actually believe they’re non-binary. 👉 They just like the attention that comes with it.

And in a world where being a regular man or woman is “boring,” what better way to stand out than making up an identity out of thin air?

Science Still Says There Are Two Genders—Cry About It

I know this upsets Twitter users with septum piercings, but:

👉 Every scientific study, every biological textbook, and every credible geneticist confirms that there are two sexes: male and female.

👉 99.98% of humans are born with either XY or XX chromosomes. (The other 0.02% are actual intersex individuals—a biological disorder, not a third gender.)

👉 No amount of “gender feelings” will change that.

So when someone says, “I’m neither male nor female, I’m non-binary,” what they really mean is:

🚨 “I am experiencing an existential crisis but instead of therapy, I decided to change my pronouns.”

And instead of saying “Damn, maybe I need a hobby,” they demand that the entire planet cater to their new self-diagnosed identity.

“But Gender Isn’t Biological, It’s A Social Construct!”

Wrong.

Languages across every culture—from Chinese to Arabic to Latin—have gender built into them.

Every civilization since the dawn of time has recognized two genders.

Animals, insects, and even goddamn plants operate on a male/female reproductive system.

But suddenly, in 2020, we discovered that all of history was wrong and Twitter activists are the new experts.

Sure.

The Harsh Truth: You’re Not Non-Binary—You’re Just Bored, Lonely, Or Looking For Clout

The explosion of non-binary identity isn’t a biological shift or a cultural enlightenment.

It’s a boredom epidemic.

People used to find meaning through:

✔ Building a career ✔ Raising a family ✔ Creating art ✔ Developing a real personality

Now?

People log onto TikTok, see a blue-haired activist getting 500,000 likes for saying “I just discovered I’m genderfluid,” and suddenly…

💡 “I’m non-binary too!”

Not because it’s real. Not because they ever struggled with gender before. But because it’s trendy, it gets attention, and it gives them something to put in their bio.

And the second this trend dies?

They’ll quietly drop it and pretend it never happened—just like they did with their Tumblr self-diagnosed mental illnesses.

Final Thought: Reality Always Wins

You can scream your gender feelings into the void. You can write 37 pronouns in your bio. You can throw a tantrum when someone says “sir” or “ma’am” in public.

But at the end of the day?

👉 Reality doesn’t care.

There are men and women. That’s it. That’s all there ever was. That’s all there ever will be.

And deep down? You know it.

Now go touch some grass.

—AND NOW THEY’RE TERRIFIED

Once upon a time—by which I mean just a couple of years ago—you could get banned off the entire internet for saying something that, in retrospect, turned out to be 100% correct.

COVID origins? Banned. Election concerns? Banned. Saying men shouldn’t box women? Nuclear-level banned.

The Most Humble Blog wasn’t immune to the digital gulag, either. My entire Medium account—which I created about a year ago—was flagged, reported, and permanently nuked for violating the delicate sensibilities of the same people who spend their weekends dressed like discount Madonna impersonators.

I tried to acquiesce. A decision I’m still ashamed of.

I tried not rocking the boat, at least a little.

I thought, maybe, if I wasn’t too loud, if I just toned it down 5%, these lipstick-bearded hall monitors would let me exist.

But it was too late.

The mob had already decided. It didn’t matter if I changed the phrasing, softened the wording, or used gentler language—because it was never about the words.

It was about eliminating the wrong thinkers.

And in case there was any lingering illusion that these platforms were “neutral,” the dismissive response from Medium’s staff confirmed everything I needed to know:

They weren’t just tolerating censorship; they were leading it.

They weren’t punishing bad behavior; they were enforcing ideology.

They weren’t just banning “harmful speech”; they were shutting up anyone who didn't fall in line.

It didn’t even matter that they were the ones who sought me out.

It didn’t matter that they came into my inbox spewing the most profane, unhinged, sexually explicit insults they could string together.

It didn’t matter that they violated every rule on the site.

They had the backing of the moderators.

Because this was never about rules. It was about who gets to speak.

THE GREAT SILENCING—AND THE RISE OF THE RESISTANCE

For years, censorship was camouflaged as virtue.

It wasn’t “banning opposing views”; it was stopping hate. It wasn’t “erasing dissenting voices”; it was protecting marginalized people. It wasn’t “crushing free speech”; it was curating a safe space.

And if you dared question the censors?

You were labeled a menace to society faster than a blue-haired Twitter addict could say, “Report and block.”

The problem? The lies didn’t hold up.

The same experts who silenced COVID skeptics were later forced to admit that lab-leak theories were “plausible.”

The same tech giants who buried election concerns suddenly stopped banning people for asking questions.

The same people who claimed "speech is violence" suddenly had nothing to say when the violence was against people who disagreed with them.

And then, something happened that completely shattered their monopoly on the conversation:

Trump got back into the picture.

And love him or hate him, he did something no other politician had the balls to do:

He put these censor-happy pussies on notice.

Unless there’s a proveable direct threat against a person, people should be able to say whatever the fuck they want. Period.

Not “if it aligns with corporate-approved narratives.” Not “if it doesn’t hurt anyone’s feelings.” Not “if it’s deemed acceptable by a bunch of unwashed Twitch moderators.”

Whatever. The fuck. They want.

And suddenly?

The entire censorship machine started backpedaling.

NOW THEY’RE SCARED—AND THEY SHOULD BE

Let’s be real. These people never believed in free speech.

They believed in speech control.

They thrived under the old system—where they could run around platforms, flagging people they didn’t like, getting them deplatformed, demonetized, and erased from existence.

But now?

Now they’re absolutely terrified.

Why?

Because they know they can’t win without silencing the opposition.

Because they know they don’t have the numbers.

Because they know that without biased moderators holding their hands, their arguments fall apart faster than a Dollar Store wig in a rainstorm.

And for the first time in years, these people are realizing:

They don’t own the internet anymore.

They don’t get to dictate what’s “allowed” anymore.

They don’t get to be the arbiters of truth anymore.

The free speech Renaissance is here, and they are shitting bricks.

WHAT COMES NEXT?

The fight isn’t over.

These platforms aren’t suddenly pro-free speech out of some moral awakening.

No, no, no.

They’re only backing off because:

They got exposed.

Their narrative fell apart.

And people stopped being afraid.

But don’t think for a second they aren’t waiting for their chance to clamp down again.

The second they think they can regain control, they’ll try it again.

Which is why now, more than ever, you have to:

🔥 Speak your mind. 🔥 Refuse to self-censor. 🔥 Push the conversation forward, no matter how “taboo” it is.

Because the second we go quiet?

They win.

And fuck that.

🔥 REBLOG if you refuse to be silenced.

👨‍🦰 Bio: "Male feminist | Respect women | Pronouns in bio | Ally 💖💜💙"

💬 DMs: "Hey gorgeous, I just think it's so brave how you speak out against men... also, are you single?"

👕 Wardrobe: Shirt that says "We Should All Be Feminists," but stained with fcking Cheeto dust

👣 Twitter Activity: Reblogging feminist rants all day, but only following women with OnlyFans

🏆 Life Achievement: Got ratio’d trying to white knight for a woman who fcking ignored him

🚨 Warning: High risk of getting exposed for creepy DMs in 2-5 years.

💥 Hot Take: Therapy isn’t supposed to be a safe space for your delusions. If you’ve been spilling your guts to a therapist for years and nothing has changed, congrats—you’ve just been paying someone to babysit your dysfunction.

🔥 Therapy Wasn’t Meant to Be a Lifestyle

Once upon a time, therapy was a tool to solve problems—not a f*cking emotional crutch you use forever. But thanks to the modern "mental health awareness" movement, it’s turned into a never-ending subscription service for professional validation.

🚨 FACTS:

📌 70-80% of people who seek therapy improve within 12-20 sessions—if they actually work on their sh*t. (American Psychological Association) 📌 Only 25% of people in therapy actually reach full resolution of their issues. The rest? They just keep coming back. (National Institute of Mental Health) 📌 Therapists have NO financial incentive to "fix" you. A client who never leaves = guaranteed income.

You think your therapist wants you healed? No, motherf*cker, they want you to keep booking sessions and paying their rent.

🔥 The "Therapy Industrial Complex"—Endless Treatment, No F*cking Solutions

Therapy has become a business model, not a solution.

👉 Your therapist isn’t your life coach—they’re your financial parasite. 👉 Your mental health isn’t being "treated"—it’s being monetized. 👉 They are trained to "validate" you, not challenge you—because if they challenge you, you might f*cking leave.

If your therapist never calls you on your bullsh*t, guess what? They don’t care about fixing you—they care about keeping you dependent.

🚨 FACT: The U.S. therapy industry is worth over $17 billion annually—and growing. Why? Because people are addicted to venting instead of fixing their problems.

🔥 You Don’t Need a Therapist—You Need F*cking Accountability

You know what worked before therapy became a personality trait? Tough love. Personal responsibility. Growth.

🔹 If your life is a mess, stop talking about it and f*cking fix it. 🔹 If you’ve been in therapy for years and nothing’s changed—your therapist is failing, or YOU are. 🔹 Your mental health is YOUR responsibility, not your therapist’s f*cking paycheck.

🚨 FACT: Studies show that people who actively take responsibility for their healing improve significantly faster than those who just sit and "process their trauma." (Harvard Medical School)

👉 Healing requires action, not just talking.

🔥 The Hard Truth: No One Can "Save" You But YOU

At the end of the day:

❌ Your therapist won’t magically fix your sh*t. ❌ Talking about your problems doesn’t solve them. ❌ "Processing your trauma" means nothing if you’re not DOING something about it.

Therapy isn’t the problem. Using therapy as a crutch instead of a tool IS.

If you’re still broken after five years of weekly sessions, maybe it’s time to: ✔ Find a new therapist. ✔ Take actual f*cking action. ✔ Accept that healing is your job, not theirs.

🔥 Final Thought: Fix Your Sh*t or Keep Paying to Complain

You have two choices: 🚀 Use therapy as a TOOL to fix your life. 💀 Or keep paying a stranger to nod while you spiral forever.

The world doesn’t owe you healing. That’s YOUR job.