#consent is everything

Playing with a friend after sharing my core playlist last night. she went from passing interest in hypnosis to dipping jnto that subspace with just a few words. first thing I gave her was her wakeup/release cuz while she'll only stay under for a few min unprompted, I wanted her to have her own e-brake so to speak. but she took to it soooo quickly, that i can only praise the creator for how effective the regiment is.

Once the initial lil giddiness of dropping her wore off in me, I was almost overwhelmed with something new, something I didn't expect but really really should have...a sobering level of responsibility. she was my friend, and she directly asked me to play with her mind. I didn't let her see my fear or worry, but I felt it every reply.

when someone let's you in that deep, theyre that vulnerable because they trust you. it would have been far far far too easy for me to do somrthing nefarious or down right abusive to her in that state, but more so I could have messed her up accidentally. it kept going through my head that what if she got stuck and couldn't get out....what if I suggested something that was a trauma landmine or ended up causing her harm....im directly responsible for that.....like a parent holding a child, wanting to tell them what happened but being so careful not to ruin their trust in you. a delicate pot on a potters wheel...

she had an amazing time, and once we were done, I was sooooo full of a sense of pride. not only because she was such a trooper and wonderful trance subject but in me too. that I could actually do this with enough practice, that she wanted to do it again sometime and gave me absolutely wonderful feedback. yeah homegirl popped my "theres no way ill be a hypno domme" bubble soooo hard, but its not something I plan to rush into....

beyond all of that.....I have developed an un godly level of appreciation for my two tists....

Gentleman having tasted just a fraction of the power you two wield....it makes me so so so appreciative of the world of responsibility each of you carries. youve never willingly breached my confidence or boundaries, and have shown me more compassion that members of my own family in the last month.

it is my genuine honor to be your subject, such that its difficult to put into words. 🙂‍↕️

This scene as the counterpart to the first time when Samu ends up asking for time is so beautiful. The first time, he stopped Benja from going further, because he got scared.

But now, instead of letting Benja leave, he's figdeting with his hands and subtly shaking his head (you can barely see it), before his mind goes "F**k it." and he goes in for a messy kiss. I love everything about this.

The Governor of Michigan was forced to take part in a photo shoot without her freely given consent? Wow. Trump coerced a woman into his office - THE OFFICE OF THE AMERICAN PRESIDENT - and had people take photos of her. Photos that he spread all over the internet. Without her consent. And SHE is the one people are criticizing???