1. When not taken the time to treat others with dignity and respect, we help bring out the worst. Buddy just wanted to be with his hero Mr. Incredible. He had always admired and one day he came up with this brilliant idea. " IncridiBoy I can be your partner, as Batman and Robin "sounded great, but that almost caused his own life and as a result, a thief escaped. Therefore, Mr. Incredible Buddy gave the cold shoulder as they basically told him to stay away from working alone. Due to the nature of their work, Mr. Incredible was really better to work without a child at his side, but it was probably a much better way to say this that to crush the dignity and esteem of a young child. We must not compromise our convictions or settling for less than what we think we should, because we want to be liked by everyone, but we can learn to say no in a respectful, though not everyone likes. Especially when it comes to children who are still forming ideas and concepts about what the world is, we must be extremely careful to not become a bad piece of the puzzle being put together that ultimately, a negative image what the world is. Like the popular 6 degrees of separation theory unites us all in some way, I think the same thing so it's possible that everything we have helped create, even when it seems that is completely independent of us, somehow return to affect us one way or another, whether for better or for worse. 2. Trying to hide his peculiarities can lead to self-hatred. Unfortunately, we live in a world that is constantly trying to make us meet "ideal" one, that makes us seem less like us and more like everyone else. A society that has been proposed to kill the superhero in us that we can become more manageable. This is the world of The Incredibles were found living in a world that had become intolerant to greatness, excellence and uniqueness and are turning to "medium", "normal" and "ordinary." And as human beings with innate survival instincts they realized that something was out to kill the essence of what they are, began to hide. Mr. Incredible, Elastigirl and his girlfriend decided to go incognito. But the more I tried to comply, the more miserable he became. Soon I could not hold a conversation, especially on the subject, without turning into an argument. Dad was so frustrated and discouraged with his life than just let go. His "regular" job that requires any special skills, slowly consumed him. He and colleague of age were constantly intercept calls to the police in search of ways to do what they were born to do: use their gifts to serve humanity. But at every step of the way it warns, by the people who loved them, that this activity was dangerous and, basically, be content with being number one in a list, a head in the crowd and just out of the old dreams of greatness back. Then came the children and they very soon understood exactly what was expected of them: respect, implement and act like everyone else, not to draw attention to himself is dangerous, not scare people by being exactly who are, because they will not get, it will try to end it, someone in the world can understand and be comfortable, here is the format ... So very young learn to hide our superpowers, to hide the fact that they are off and start trying to imitate others. Learn to speak, walk, act and see how people around us who may be trying to be like us in some way. The worst part of this test is the most ridiculous to try and try, unsuccessfully, to conform, the more disgusted we become our uniqueness and ultimately with the person we really are. This is very obvious in Violet, the teenage girl who possesses the incredible ability to turn invisible and create force-shield. But what really wishes she could do, is simply disappear, or build a fortress to help her escape from a world that surely have a monster. 3. Anti-heroes are usually just people trying to usurp the power of other people. Yes, Buddy suffered a traumatic experience when I was young. Its hero, the person who looked up and admired him down, led him to doubt himself, to feel small and insignificant. Or did it? You see, that's the way Buddy chose to interpret the event. Mr. Incredible, I never meant to any of this, that really saved his life that night. All I did was superheroes brush the wrong way. But Buddy decided to grow those wounds, to test the feelings and again in the head and this leads him to use his brilliance, not to increase other young people, not to bless the world using the combined resources than he was born more than what Life had treated him, no, he chose to channel their energy toward evil and destruction. They say that success is the best revenge, however, if your goal is revenge that will lead to nothing but success. What a waste of talent, to use our energy chasing the wrong things. Instead of going up and unpleasant circumstances, we sink more and more if we choose to be envious and jealous of the success of others. When we try to destroy rather than build a great life, the results are always less rewarding. Buddy decided to demolish superheroes instead of using their own powers for good. He let anyone tell you that he had no powers, therefore, undertook to strip others of theirs. 4. Many times what they perceive as a disadvantage may be our greatest strength. By the time The Incredible decided to put his skills to good use, they are entitled. They were no longer afraid, and not shy, they were released. Sometimes you need to do face to face, like trying to kill free and allow their "powers" to flow freely. If you are not the blessing of the world, if you are hiding somewhere trying to be "normal" without realizing it, you will begin to decline slowly. But as you decide it's time to do what you born to do, immediately begin to grow and become more powerful. Have you noticed how some people who once felt threatened and even ostracized by things such as sex, race or social status, once they decide to use as fuel opposition really just projecting? It has happened time and again that the disadvantage is in fact becomes the mechanism that drives become winners. And there are countless cases of people who have blessed the world tremendously in various fields who have said that if not for his physical disability, you most likely have been established for "normal" and "ordinary", but disadvantage did not give them another option, since "normal" was not an option for them. Whatever you do or possession which distinguishes it, though in the past I thought of him as being weird, just give it another look, you could be sitting on the key to a brighter destination. 5. When you learn to love yourself, you can have better relations. Once you have learned to love yourself in a healthy way, once you have learned to forgive yourself for your shortcomings and to recognize their own strengths, once your soul has felt its real value becomes free. You are free to express love, compassion and tolerance toward others, almost compulsively now have the need to share that experience with another human being and indeed the whole creation of God. The Incredibles experienced this once he decided to be what it always claims to be. It began when the father was cheated to put on your superhero costume once again. Immediately had to come from the energy that only occurs when you are walking in the way of his purpose. At home, fighting and love again. You can only give what you own. And once mom and dad were comfortable in their own clothes, then the children were released to feel the same. Violet realized I could do something more than a disappearing act and was finally confident enough to talk to the cute guy she liked at school and immediately noticed the difference in it. Love and trust are such that they are impossible to maintain himself, but it will always timeout. 6. The acceptance of others uniqueness says it's okay for them to accept. It is interesting that family members who were more eager to hide their powers, were mom and Violet. Mom was always worried about jeopardizing the safety of the family, while Violet, especially, feared that would be considered "different" and "not-as-other-girls." Unfortunately, even in a world that appears to be the promotion of more women than ever before to achieve this, many women still prefer to play safe and loved, for being brave and aggressive. If they are too smart, they may try to downplay and we usually try to modify or completely change the way we look to fulfill the ideal of so-called Society. But I can not imagine what an impression in the minds of Violet to see his mother comfortable and in full command of their own superpowers. It gave him the courage to do the same, although it took a while to flush, which is very natural. It may take some time to release what we have tried to hold for so long, but once you get the handle of it, are often surprised when we realize what we have been able to do all the time. 7. God did not create either a "stream" of the child. I find it very interesting that Mr. and Mrs. Incredible has just taken that little Jack-Jack had no superpowers, and he was just an "ordinary" child, simply because time had come to show what their special skills. Often some people, even those that could affect their real value because it has not done anything that in their estimation is considered exceptional. And when you are in a difficult situation that patients may worry wondering how in the world that we do, is that you can not help himself. However, Edna, the eccentric designer, did not share their beliefs, but the logical conclusion that there is a very few, if any, of two extraordinary people are going to produce anything special children, so I went ahead and made him a suit anyway. Sometimes it takes someone from outside to see the greatness in us that has been sadly taken for granted by those who are too close. If you are a child of a Great Awesome God, why have not the conclusion that his purpose for your life is just so you get just by without anything particularly special? I'm not suggesting we all become celebrities. Maybe this is the biggest mistake in this regard and the reason why many people are willing to sell cheaply and be exploited by fifteen minutes of dubious fame, just because they think there is nothing special about them. What a tragedy! Maybe there is something in them that is considered so terrible and shameful what could be the key to the purpose of your life. Finally, just keep in mind that superheroes usually discover their powers under heavy pressure as it did with Jack-Jack. While you're comfortable in your comfort zone watching life go by, your superpowers may well lie dormant and comfortable as well. But like a rusty, ugly piece, dull coal becomes a priceless diamond through the fire and terrible pressure, we usually see our area superpowers during difficult times. So no matter what has happened, is happening or what "handicap" may think that you can all serve to awaken the superhero in you, now that's amazing!