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Hi, just wondering if you could put plain text under the coloured text on your blog for accessibility?
Would it being a slightly smaller size, okay?
Like this.
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it feels like ill never provide the things people want from a relationship, so I'll be alone forever and die
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PHM being treated as The AroAce Story hurts a bit because...I don't like it. I don't care about it. It feels like I'm being fucking incomprehensibly evil and arguably anti-myself because what do you mean this very aroace guy doesn't like the aroace media? What, is he anti-aroace? Because he's blocking the tags? Because he's blocking the people who post a lot about it? He's being bad. He's being different just to be different. He should like the AroAce Story because he's AroAce. What's wrong with him?
Am I bad? Am I evil? Am I going to be used as fuel against us because of this piece of media?
I don't like it.
Yeah, I've never seen it either & don't have any interest to do so. And if people would harass over than, then that's incredibly stupid to do so.
Aspecs defending allos is like if chickens defended KFC. Like why would you defend your oppressors? Especially in the context of someone expressing their frustration with societal bs like oversexualization or the mindset that everyone needs to be in a relationship?... And this is primarily done by favorables, btw. The same ones, who complain about how allos will never see them as ace.
I think I've only really got one friend who respects that I'm sex repulsed
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I always find myself really uncomfortable when my two friends (who are dating) are being really romantic together but I feel bad every time when I wish they would stop because I feel like it's unfair to expect them to stop just for me
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A bit of a rant,
I'm so incredibly frustrated by how hard it is trying to find affirming community online. Especially as a repulsed asexual who doesn't use microlabels and doesn't experience or define my asexuality through attraction but instead because I innately don't desire to have sex ever and because of my natural repulsion to sex.
It often feels like I'm trapped between exclusionist communites who accept how I experience my asexuality (because it falls in line with their definition) but at the price of excluding many other aspec people. Which I'm simply not okay with. Or more inclusive communities, where I actually want to be, but the ways I experience my asexuality (zero desire for sex ever and repulsion to sex) are treated as "a stereotype" that "has nothing to do with asexuality" because "asexuality is ONLY about attraction".
It really sucks because I refuse to be in exclusionist communites because of how other aspecs are treated there but at the same time, so many inclusive ace communities don't hold space for asexuality like mine unless I pretend my repulsion is completely disconnected from my asexuality (it's not), I use attraction definitions and language to describe my asexuality (which does not and has never worked for me), and use microlabels for my absolute zero desire for sex and repulsion to sex (which I've never connected with or comfortably used)
It feels almost hypocritical to me that in the much wider inclusive part of the ace community where asexuality is understood as a spectrum and microlabels are created and used by many community members, that attraction is upheld as the ONLY way that actually matters to being asexual. That asexual indiviuals cannot define their own asexuality as being because they are repulsed/averse/indifferent to sex or even because they don't want to have sex in general without being "um actually"-ied by other aces who, usually with indirect language, treat their fellow ace's asexuality as if it doesn't actually count because it's not defined through attraction.
I'm tired. I don't want to dictate how other members of my community define themselves. I just want to be able to say "I am asexual because I innately don't want to have sex" and "I am asexual because I am repulsed by sex" without having to defend my own asexuality from my own community.
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