#clearboundaries

I’m so happy that I have evolved to a place in my life where the little things mean the most to me. This man gets me… in the last few days, a few peeps, have made a conscious effort to tell me how much they are inspired by my relationship with Jose. One said they could “feel our love” in the way we talk to each other. I know it, he knows it… it’s nice to have others know it. Not just because it’s a reflection on finally finding my perfect fit… but because it inspires others that they can find theirs too… love is real, it’s out there. Have boundaries and if he shows up “looking good on paper” but carrying a bouquet of red flags… don’t be afraid to say no. If you hold on to what is not right, you risk finding what is… #dothework #fuckredflags #findwhatyoulove #lovewhatyoufind #clearboundaries https://www.instagram.com/p/CY7e_mfsd48/?utm_medium=tumblr

SET BOUNDARIES To have a healthy, balanced lifestyle, it is essential to set clear boundaries. Distractions are part of life and are inevitable. It can easily steer you off course if you are not prepared. Therefore, you need clear boundaries. Boundaries are a set of rules that you can create for yourself to serve as guidelines. It can have many benefits. Life is full of surprises and unexpected events will get in the way, but if you have a set of boundaries to refer to, it will help you make decisions based on what is best for you, not just the people around you. Some people will always try to manipulate you, but remember that not everyone have the same level of commitment to their academics than you do. If you have a set of boundaries, it will be easier to stay true to yourself. Having clear boundaries will not only make it easier when you encounter peer pressure but will also help you determine who you may hang out with and under what circumstances. Distinguish between events you really want to attend and then stick to your boundaries, for instance not to go out with friends more than once a week. Dr Ora Marx Photo and quote credits: Aneska Joubert Photography #setboundaries #balancedlifestyle #levelofcommitment #clearboundaries https://www.instagram.com/p/CJ0iYn9sPtg/?igshid=1ixoz9pdljar1

I'm of the opinion that this narrative is complete bulls*t. If people learned to communicate, be authentic, and set clear boundaries (in and out of the relationship) we could avoid this entire experience. What do you think? #somethingsabouther #stahfamily #communicate #clearboundaries #relationshipproblems #blackandwhite (at Phoenix, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CDQcSDGHR4c/?igshid=17ak0n7th8s9h

When you mow the lawn with @runkeeper tracking #activitypaused #activityresumed #clearboundaries #getyourstepsin #reallifedata #newaesthetic