#cishet men

a lot of cishet men nowadays are not masculine. they are just aggressive and antisocial and play that as "stoicism."

the way i keep on ONLY attracting straight cis guys that just see me as a girl is actually creepy. like, nobody is ever attracted to me genuinely, only men that see me just for my vagina ig? also i dress really alternative and i'm really sex repulsed, do they see me as a challenge of some sorts?

I want to talk about a male friend who, as far as I know, is cishet, but whenever I feel like I have to speak up about something related to feminism, gender identity and sexuality, he is there correcting false assumptions or making a joke about the conservative talking points made by someone in the group. It feels so good not having to be the only one to stand up all the time. Men, please take note, this is too rare and it makes me genuinely feel like someone has my back.

It's so genuinely hard to be a friend to someone who likes men, like, every time I'm listening about how their boyfriends don't even do the most basic stuff that I'm, being just a friend, doing all the time??? And, like, stuff that I consider normal and basic and necessary even in just close friendship??? Like, bitch, what do you mean you didn't thought about gifting them some flowers even tho they always told you they love flowers and you have lots of money and definitely can buy it???? I'm a poor student and I rarely have money for normal food, and still I'm planning months before their birthday how and where I will buy flowers for them to make that a surprise, I make whole research on what flowers they love the most, and I literally start saving my money to get them a decent bouquet, and we're just friends, not even dating, that's literally a basic thing, why the fuck can't men do that shit in literal relationship😭