#chang bin

Spend any time near forums devoted to AI companions and a recurring chorus emerges from the newcomers. They're not asking which platform is loudest; they're asking something simpler and more honest. Is SweetDream worth trying as an AI girlfriend if you've never done this before? Watching how first-timers react once they actually open sweetdream.ai answers it better than any pitch could.

The early surprise is always the creation studio. Rather than handing you a finished character, it asks you to build one, shaping appearance, voice, personality, backstory and quirks into something specific. The deeper surprise arrives in conversation, where the AI feels natural, emotionally intelligent and reliably good at remembering context, which is exactly where so many competitors stumble.

͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏ ͏͏ ͏ ͏͏͏𝗂 𝖼𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽𝗇'𝗍 𝗌𝗍𝗈𝗉 𝗆𝗒𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿, ͏ 𝗂 𝖼𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽𝗇'𝗍 𝗁𝖾𝗅𝗉 𝗆𝗒𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿 𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗌 𝗂𝗌𝗇'𝗍 𝗅𝗂𝗄𝖾 𝗆𝖾, ͏͏ ͏ ͏𝖼𝖺𝗇'𝗍 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗍𝖾𝗅𝗅?

That was such a sensual scene also she banged a eunuch tho was too wasted to remember mmm

I hope Lee Know and Seungmin feel better, and quickly. They rocked it even though they were hurt.

I hope Hyunjin knows that we love him so much, and that he's such an important part of SKZ. Please don't ever leave, Hyunjin.

I hope Felix's back continues to feel better, and that it can eventually be completely healed.

I hope Changbin knows that no matter what he looks like, what his muscle tone is, or how much he weighs, he is handsome, and we all love him in every look he's had over the years.

I hope Seungmin knows that he shines so bright. We all see you, Seungmin, you're so talented and special. Your voice and music is what puts me to sleep when I'm anxious at night.

I hope that Jeongin can see how devastatingly handsome and gorgeous he is and quit putting himself down. Your face is as pretty as your vocals, I.N.

I hope Chan knows how much we look up to him. He really is our best leader- of SKZ, and of STAYs. He's so important to us all. I hope he knows that we love it when he's all protective of his people. It's what makes him who he is. And it's cute when he's a little cringe. Because everyone has those moments, and that's okay. It's what makes us fun and human. And I hope for his sake that he gets that surgery, because no true fan will give a FUCK that his voice is a little different as long as he's okay.

NOW HEAR ME OUT.

I mean that I am truly worried for their mental health and their relationship towards STAYs.

Lemme explain.

So I don't know if you've noticed but there have been some troublemakers in STAYville. So called "fans" that believe themselves entitled to outright disrespect the members and violate their privacy.

Now I know Kpop is a breeding ground for immature fans and dangerous parasocial relationships, and I am well aware that having such weird fans is a job liability. However, to me, STAYs have always been the more chill and kind fandom, be it towards each other or the members. We've therefore almost always managed to build a trusting and loving but still respectful bond with our beloved idols.

But in the last few weeks/months, there have been more and more disturbances. "Fans" polluting their lives with comments like "english please", "can you be my boyfriend for 5 minutes", "speak spanish", "make a heart" blablabla.

I don't know what possesses people to make such puerile demands towards actual grown men. Like, they are adults, artists, not your plaything. Not your character AI bot. They have thoughts, feelings, and get annoyed as well. And I don't know how they don't see how visibly annoyed they get each time one of these stupid comments shows up.

And it's not just the comments. it's the behaviour when they are seen in public, or at the airport (just see how some fans behaved themselves when Skz returned from their (must I add super exhausting, long) tour DominATE, right after Chan made that one livestream calling STAYs out on their disrespectful behaviour. Look at it and see for yourself and tell me that's ok to do).

Channie did a live on Instagram where he had to put some so called "STAYs" in their place for being disrespectful. And you could see his exhaustion, frustration, annoyance, anger. He pointed out some crazy fans intruded into his and the boys' intimacy. I cannot believe STAYville has fallen so low. Disappointing our leader, annoying the members, just to post a weird ass comment or get a picture up close with them. I cannot comprehend how any fan could do this.

Because, first and foremost, fans, especially Kpop fans, should support their idols. Not harass them. Their job (because yes, it is a JOB) is exhausting and life sucking enough, they don't need immature, obsessive freaks running after them, intruding their private (OFF WORK) life, commanding them to speak in a language they don't want to, begging them to be their boyfriend. And if you consider yourself a STAY (or an Army, Engene, Moa, Carat, whatever i don't care) you should be RESPECTFUL. You should wish them rest, sleep, calm, peace. You should support them, wish for them to succeed but also take care of themselves. You should want for them to feel as good as possible in an inhumane industry (the Kpop music industry that is) and not contribute to their mysery.

Because that will ultimately not only harm them actively, but also drive them away from their fans. From us. And I don't think that these immature fans want that.

Now I know these "STAYs" are a minority, and that these behaviours are seen through all of Kpop and has been for many many years, and it's not gonna change. Unfortunately. But it just makes me sick watching their lives, seeing how tired they are of our bullshit, how they'd rather be doing anything else, how disappointed they get with us because frankly, we are letting them down. Our boys work so fucking hard all year to produce the best for us STAYs, and we pay them back with exhausting, immature comments and harassment and physical violence. It makes me sick to my stomach seeing them grow more and more bitter. And the fact that this minority screams the loudest and poisons STAYs relationship towards the members.

Because I just want them to be happy, to have a sane and healthy relationship with their fans, and to enjoy what they do. To enjoy making music, and interacting with their fans, finding strength in STAYs rather than getting even more tired of us.

And we, as a fandom, are failing at supporting them by being disrespectful idiots.

Idols are people. Men and women with a life, thoughts, feelings, a mental and physical health. They have lines that are not to be crossed, as Channie himself said. If you respect them, they'll respect you. They are not babies, they are not your boyfriend. They are grown men making music, and they do not owe you anything. Especially if they are treated like that by their "fans".

People treating them like this can't consider themselves STAYs, nor fans. People like this aren't fans, they aren't appreciative of the artists. Because if they were, they'd be respectful, wishing the best for the members. And the best for them is to be left alone when off work, and being treated like humans.

I'm not saying you specifically are. As I said, these "STAYs" are the minority. And I know STAYville's degradation will continue, inevitably. But I just needed to get this off my chest, it makes me sick, and I'm worried for the members.

I know I'm screaming in a void. Please know that I'm just worried for Stray Kids, because I love them. I don't mean no harm. I just wanted to get this off my chest, because things need to be said.