AIO I think my friend took pics of my GF.
This weekend i had 3 friends over to drink, smoke and play video games like old times. We started off playing drinking games, my gf was losing most of them so she got tipsy pretty early. Eventually she went to go lay down on the couch which is down the hallway from the kitchen and living room, so I suggested we all hop on the game now that it was just the boys.
Out of my 3 friends thereās one that iām not super close with, Chandler. We tend to clash a looot and just disagree on majority of things, our friends even acknowledge this. Either way, we still hang out in the same group and have a fun time.
Well i noticed that once we got on the game, Chandler started becoming very busy/active. Like going to the kitchen for food then going back for a drink, then going to the bathroom multiple times, asking me where this and that was. I didnāt think much of it but I made a mental note of where my gf was the whole time. The bathroom is also down the hallway and once you go down the hallway everything is out of sight so i kept a keen eye on him when he started walking around.
I was frequently checking on my gf too and everything was fine. I saw that her nip had slipped out a bit so i fixed her up and turned her over. Because when coming out of the bathroom, you can see the couch so I got paranoid wondering if Chandler had seen anything. I didnāt want to ask him and plant a seed in his head that i was accusing him, so i just got back on my controller.
A few minutes passed and Chandler said he had bubble guts and had to run to the bathroom again. This made me suspicious because it was his 5th time going in 2 hours but I realized that he did drink the most out of everyone. My intuition was telling me to check on my gf but i didnāt want to look weird by following him to the bathroom. He was gone for about 20 minutes, basically the duration of a whole game which was odd to me.
I went back to check on my gf and this time both of her breasts were completely exposed??? Iām talking about flat on her back, shirt rolled up to her neck. I donāt know if she was tossing and turning in her sleep and that happened or did Chandler do it? In the past Iāve seen him blatantly stare at her chest before, like many others do, but heās supposed to be my āfriendā so it never sat right with me. My gf has a large chest and I admit itās hard to ignore sometimes but i always felt like chandler had ulterior motives being around her. He also has a well-known porn addiction and is obsessed with pretty women whom he knows personally, and i mean OBSESSED.
I came back to the living room clearly shaken up but I didnāt say anything, I just looked at Chandler. He was visibly sitting away from everyone staring at his phone, disengaged not talking to anyone. Then I got a sickening feeling that he may have taken photos of my gfs breasts so i tried to ease up behind him to see his phone but he was being super protective and avoidant. I could tell something wasnāt right.
Please help, do you guys think Chandler did this to my gf or am i being paranoid? The way her shirt was rolled up is so unlikely to be an accident and she was passed out so she still has no idea. What if chandler didnāt even do anything. Idk though Chandler has never been a big fan of me plus heās had eyes on her before. Everything leads to me thinking he did it and took pictures of her, which would explain the sudden distancing from our friends while in the same room. Was he even in the bathroom for those 20 minutes or was he violating her the whole time?? Should i just ask him?
Reddit consensus: NOT OVERREACTING (NOR) (100% confidence)
Top comment: āNOR. This is extremely concerning. You donāt like this guy anyway, Iād corner him and force him to show you his phone. If he refuses get the cops involved. God your poor girlfriend, I hope sheās okay and that nothing really did happen. But after finding her exposed a second time Iām shocked it wasnāt addressed immediatelyā
Notable comment: āNOR. Wtf, my guts are revolving just from reading this. It sounds really bad.
I'm so sorry to say this, but the way you described everything totally makes me think that wasn't accidental, I also have a pretty busty partner and big breasts doesn't just fall out of underwear like that while sleeping. Nor does a top just roll up to the neck. Wtf, for real.
Have you asked her if she remembers anything off?
If I were in your shoes and found my drunken asleep gf suddenly with her body exposed that unnatural way when that absolute creep was going around so frequently and for so long, I would have totally cornered him no matter the outcome. Good on you for keeping your temper tho, but I do think that creep (especially considering what you say about his "habits") and you need to have a talk, and I'd even have the police number at hand.ā
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Originally shared by 2kgamerxX on r/AmIOverreacting on August 3rd, 2026 at 7:19 PM UTC. Credit to u/Okayyyitsav and u/Dawn_of_Enceladus for the quoted comments.