honest notes on dating the zodiac signs (from personal experience)
♥︎ aries men have the most childlike energy, they are very straighforward and if they are interested in you... you will know. Usualy very extroverted, funny and charming, think lead singer of a band, captain of the football team energy but in the most natural and nice way possible. I feel like words of affirmation light them up in a way other love languages just don’t, they like to be praised and publicly so.
♥︎ gemini men tend to be a bit boring but only when they get insecure and start absorbing your personality a little too much. Like you just know they are saying things just to please you and not because it’s what they want. I gotta be honest though, they are pretty charming in the beginning and have the best smiles. Aren’t THAT much into casual sex as people make them out to be but if offered they won’t refuse.
♥︎ cancer men can gaslight the shit out of you but only if they feel threatened. They can be incredibly sweet and reliable as you’d expect and will do anything for you, like they will go out of their way to help (if they like you) and won’t hang it over your head later. Incredible bakers.
♥︎ leo men love to put themselves in the role of the lone wolf who has suffered enough throughout their lives and became hard-hearted. I swear I never met a leo that didn’t have an abandonment backstory involving one of their parents.
From what I’ve seen they spend a lot of time and energy trying to please people that aren’t ever going to be satisfied and until they free themselves of this complex it’s really hard to pin them down. A bit “too much talk and not enough action” though, love sexting and sending nudes but don’t have a sex drive as high as they say.
♥︎ virgo men are usually pretty normal and funny little dudes. Hard to get on their good side though, not because they play hard to get, they are just skeptical about love most of the time. Overall great company and really appreciate when you do little things to make their life easier (like picking the chocolate chips off their cookie because you know they like eating them separately).
♥︎ scorpio men are ridiculously driven when they want something and won’t stop until they get it. I’ve also met more scorpio workaholics than capricorn workaholics (actually all the capricorn men I know love to do their job as fast as they can and then pretend to be working the rest of the day), they will set goals and work EVERYDAY towards them sometimes even prioritizing their career over their love life. They will spend months thinking about a decision, not tell you or even consult you and just pop it out of nowhere when they are sure. Alright in bed but not the sex freak some books talk about.
I’ve found that scorpio venuses tend to be way more jealous and vengeful than scorpio suns. Maybe scorpio suns hide it better.
♥︎ sagittarius men live in their own little world and good for them I guess. Usually effortlessly charming but a bit aloof, seems like their head is always on the moon but not in a bad way, it’s really cute to see it actually. Won’t notice you are flirting even though they were totally flirting with you (to you and everybody else in the room).
If they have been in a long-term relationship before, go for it, he can’t survive without partner and if he likes you he will be in for the long run (usually scorpio venuses). If not, good luck, I hope you are patient and like to suffer a little because it will be difficult to make them settle down (usually cap venuses).
♥︎ capricorn men are sly, persistent and they know what they want in a partner. There’s no hot and cold with them, it’s either hot as hell or cold as ice. Terrible at flirting, usually because when they try, they try too hard and it comes off weird.
They are a little obsessive once they want something with you and they are pretty honest partners, you will know where you stand with them and if they like you THEY LIKE YOU, no games involved. If they just want something casual they will also let you know pretty quickly.
Once a cap told me “love is persistence” and I think it really describes how they view it, it’s a goal they set and sooner or later they know they are gonna get it (they will have fun in the meantime though) even if it takes years. Will do anything to get in your pants and here is a hack, if he is chill about it (and wasn’t hugged enough as a child), it will be great! If he is rushing things to get it and is a little all over the place, it won’t be as good. I really believe they are more into physical touch than tauruses.
♥︎ aquarius men are the biggest softies but will hide it from the world until they are completely sure about the person they are with. Contrary to popular belief I do believe they like being in relationships, it just has to be on their terms and with a partner that is great in their eyes. They are always looking for someone who can keep up with their random thoughts and are usually very intelligent. Secretly love to be praised, more than leos even. Will totally ghost you out of nowhere if you fail him once though.
♥︎ ♥︎ shoutout to sag venuses for (surprisingly) being the most attentive and overall best in bed lol
(the signs I didn’t mention were signs I never dated and I used mostly things I noticed in sun placements)
