#buildyourlife

stop waiting to “feel ready” — that version of you shows up after you start, not before.

do the small thing:

open the document

revise for 10 minutes

drink water

clean one surface, that’s it. no dramatic overhaul.

your life won’t change in one intense burst of effort. it changes in repeated boring consistency.

also: stop romanticising burnout like it means you care more. it just means you’re tired.

you’re allowed to take your goals seriously without suffering through them.

discipline isn’t punishment. it’s freedom on repeat.

future you isn’t asking for perfection. just continuity.

Tuesday Tidbits...

Build the blanket forts...

Play airplane in your underwear...

Laugh often...

Cry when needed...

Kiss him madly...

Hold her tightly...

Listen to one another, don't just hear to respond...

Always apologize...

Always try and Forgive...

Have great makeup sex after an argument...

Never stop dating each other...

Explore your kinks and fantasies together...

Live... Live a beautiful, messy, gloriously fun & fulfilled life...

You deserve it!

Experiencing and understanding your states of mind.

Acknowledge the anger/sadness/pain/grief etc. With every emotion that you experience you must observe, recognize, understand and control. This small act of mindfulness over a long period of time will benefit you immensely in your future. It will break you away from those heavy, rusty chains of unfavorable breakdowns and exhausting episodes of complete and utter irritability.

Be brutally honest with yourself and where you are mentally, and then be willing to work with yourself. Be willing to grow yourself mentally. Every experience no matter how small, can be taken in as a learning experience if you let it.

Be great, be willing, be outrageously confident. You will do it.

How I Rebuilt My Routine From Zero & Transformed My Life ✨ (Real Personal Growth Story)

Ever wonder what happens when you tear down your old habits and restart from zero? That’s exactly what I did no more autopilot mornings, no half-done to-dos, no burnout. I took a hard look at what wasn’t working, rebuilt my daily structure with intention, and suddenly life felt different.

📌 Step by step: • Stripped my day of chaos • Set realistic routines that fit me • Focused on consistency over perfection • Found balance between productivity & self-care

Some people won’t understand why you’re making changes. That’s okay. This journey isn’t about them. It’s about you — and the life you’re building. 88below.co.nz/enquiry [email protected]

"Your life will be no better than the plans you make and the action you take. You are the architect and builder of your own life, fortune, destiny"