The Groom asteroid represents how your husband acts within your marriage while the Briede asteroid represents you. Note that it's also applicable in energy and role, with the corresponding sex representing you whilst the opposite represents your spouse not limited to any sexuality or gender. Everything here is of my own research & observation. That being said, all content presented only applies to the Groom persona chart.
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Reminder to reserve your discernment, as not all results are 1:1. Evaluate the other placements thoroughly!
In retrograde, more often than not it evokes the more intense, troubling or side to the placement. Though, sometimes can indicate a bit of the opposite as well.
Now, since this is the groom persona chart most povs are centered around the groom's actions and understanding. Groom here tells you what marriage does to him & his assumed role as a husband. That being said, this is how he views & justifies himself. While in my last post, it's more accurately shows how he acts towards you and how you view him as a partner. I will be using Groom as the husband & Briede you in this post but feel free to flip the narrative.
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🪽Aries (°1,°13,°25) | 1st House
Ah yes, a man of action. For some reason , it may be hard for him to sit still after marriage. With you, he shows love through action more than long emotional talks. If you’re struggling with something, he’s already thinking about what he can do to fix it or defend you. He can be surprisingly protective, the kind who will step in quickly if he feels like someone is disrespecting you or the relationship. He’s passionate, lively, and very engaged with you, can be quite the charmer as well. He wants to do things together, go places, start projects, or simply keep the energy between you alive. However, his temper can come out quickly. He might snap first and think later, especially if he feels challenged or cornered. Marriage teaches him to act fast, be more decisive and sure of himself.
🪽 Taurus (°2,°14,°26) | 2nd House
With marriage , comes his desire to take his routine & stability much more seriously. Suddenly the idea of building something lasting becomes important to him. At home he likes things to feel comfortable and predictable in a good way. He’s the type who enjoys quiet evenings, familiar routines, and a space that feels safe and pleasant for both of you. A homebody husband that's for sure. Marriage teaches him to be consistent and careful. Not the sharpest tool, but he’s there. He makes sure you’re fed, comfortable, and that the practical side of life is handled. Physical affection often becomes one of his main love languages as well. However, he will be digging his heels into the dirt when it comes to his thoughts and convictions. That's one thing that'll take an incredibly long time to get over (perhaps, even never). Being married makes his life somewhat easier.
🪽 Gemini (°3,°15,°27) | 3rd House
Marriage keeps his mind active. Living with you gives him someone to constantly exchange thoughts with, and he genuinely enjoys that. At home he’s usually talking about something something he read, something he noticed, something random that crossed his mind. He becomes more vocal and inspired. That inner child of his is free to roam. With you he acts like he’s found a companion he can mentally spar with. Marriage keeps him motivated, curious, entertaining, and encourages his sillier almost extroverted side. Still, he can become restless or mentally scattered. If something emotionally heavy comes up, he might try to talk around it, make jokes, or change the subject rather than sitting with the deeper feeling right away. Better yet, he won't shut up about it lol. Which can be good or bad depending on what you think.
🪽 Cancer (°4,°16,°28) | 4th House
Marriage makes him more conscious of the idea of home and emotional belonging, allowing himself to be more sensitive and emotional. He starts becoming more protective of the private world the two of you create together, caring more for your family or children if you'll have them. It teaches him to be more emotionally present. Leaning to be softer, and more in tune with his feelings as well as that of those around him. With you, he tends to become nurturing in his own way. He might check in on you often, ask if you’re okay, or try to comfort you when you’re overwhelmed. His attachment to you can grow very strong because you become part of what makes his life feel secure. That being said, he can get rather vain or overly reliant on his emotions. (Might also indicate a mother figure being significant here).
🪽 Leo (°5,°17,°29) | 5th House
Marriage brings out a proud and romantic side of him. Being your husband becomes something he genuinely enjoys, not just a role he fulfills. At home he often keeps the relationship lively. There can be teasing, laughter, playful affection, and moments where he goes out of his way to make you feel special. With you he tends to be expressive about his feelings. Compliments, affectionate gestures, or simply looking at you with that “you’re mine” kind of pride. He often likes the idea of the two of you being seen as a strong, attractive couple. Also, marriage allows him to be more expressive and genuine to his personal passions.
🪽 Virgo (°6,°18) | 6th House
Marriage , makes him more self aware. His thoughts frequently revolve around details i.e what needs to be done, what could be improved, what responsibilities need attention. At home he’s often thinking about tasks, routines, and how to keep everything running efficiently. With you he shows love through helpfulness and problem-solving. That being the case, there tends to also be a theme of both perfectionism and the desire to micromanage the relationship. If something is bothering you, he’s already analyzing how to fix the situation. As a spouse, he sees himself as the one who maintains the everyday functioning of the relationship.
🪽 Libra (°7,°19) | 7th House
Marriage makes him see himself primarily as a partner, meaning that is his identity including how he behaves publically. His thoughts revolve around balance how decisions affect both of you, whether things feel fair, and how the relationship can stay harmonious. It makes him more conscious about his actions and how to respond to others. He becomes very aware of the dynamic between you two as well. He learns to be more cooperative and sensible. What occupies his mind most is the state of the partnership itself.
🪽 Scorpio (°8,°20) | 8th House
Marriage , teaches him to be more vulnerable. Challenging him to stick to his beliefs and constitution. Teaching him trust and dependency. At home he tends to take the connection very seriously. With you he behaves intensely devoted, sometimes protective to the point where he feels responsible for guarding the relationship itself. Much of what occupies his mind is emotional truthwhat you’re feeling, what he’s feeling, and whether everything between you remains honest. All in all for him he may find marriage to be this trial for the both of you. If you both pass, then it'll stand the test of time, if not, he may grow distant and learn to be dishonest for the sake of it; with his own agendas or "for the better good".
🪽 Sagittarius (°9,°21) | 9th House
Marriage helps him move up in the world, and being married or being with you raises his both his credibility and personal appeal one way or another. He may feel like he has to take up the role of the more mature or experienced/patient person within your dynamic. However, this placement does strangely appear in a lot of codependent type of relationships /marriages where both parties complete each other. He may come to depend on you , but at the same time he may be someone you look to for support or guidance as well. He may think he is smarter & knows more than you (street smarts that is, on a philosophical level). He focuses a lot on the purpose of your relationship and the potential you/it has.
🪽 Capricorn (°10,°22) | 10th House
Marriage makes him more aware of responsibility and long-term structure. Being your husband becomes something he wants to handle properly. He may start thinking more seriously about stability, career progress, and building a respectable life together (though it's likely he was always the serious type to begin with). You ground him, and your relationship gives him a sense of worth. Usually very calm, acting as your stone pillar to rely on. Very reliable and reassuring. He wants you to know he’s someone you can depend on. He’s protective, disciplined, and loyal to the life you share. However, he can become overly focused on work, duties, or external pressures, which might make him seem distant for periods of time. Can be rather dry and "old" sometimes. Old fashioned that is. Much of his focus goes toward planning the future and making sure the foundation of your shared life remains strong
🪽 Aquarius (°11,°23) | 11th House
Your husband is akin to a friend in marriage. One of the most supportive placements, meaning your spouse is a lover that feels like your biggest supporter. He may feel like a stranger in your world looking in at times though. He thinks of himself as a charismatic fellow that is slightly peculiar himself hah. Even if everyone else calls you too much or annoying and weird, to him you are the star of his day. As with you, he feels more comfortable embracing the part of him he may have repressed in the past. Marriage may help him become more independent and confident in his individuality too.
🪽 Pisces (°12,°24) | 12th House
He becomes compassionate, patient, and very emotionally receptive to you. He may often exist in his own inner world and gets overwhelmed or panicked easily. He becomes more quiet and mellow, but often shares a lot of his dreams and fantasy with you. Also, he may turn into somewhat of a recluse as well, with marriage giving him the opportunity to reflect on his life and prior decisions he'll value a more separated world where it's just you and the home you've built together. He thinks of himself as an "exception" to whatever it is he perceives. Can harbor a bit of that victim mentality as well. Either way, his focus is on himself and whether he matches the version of him or the relationship he thinks he should be in.
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Briede here tells you how you'll act towards your spouse , and how you appear through his pov. Honestly, gives a lot of insight into how he'll treat you in hindsight as well once you piece the puzzles together.
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🪽 Aries (°1,°13,°25) | 1st House
To your spouse, you are someone uninhibited by the actions of others. He may be slightly scared of you, if it's in retrograde he may often surrender to your whims. Knowing you'll always find a way to win or be in the right (even when in the wrong). Either that or you surrender yourself, though the prior is more likely. A headstrong woman with the attitude to show for it. He knows you're strong and independent, and that there are very few challenges that can really slow you down. There's that youthfulness he finds in you as well that keeps him feeling younger even if you are the same age.
Ex: Lana Del Rey has Briede retrograde in Aries in the 1st & in 13° Aries in her GPC.
🪽 Taurus (°2,°14,°26) | 2nd House
In his eyes, you are the prettiest woman he's ever met. But .. also quite the klutz. He thinks of you as elegant, but at the same time clumsy and silly. He's always comfortable around you, as to him you are kind and doting even when you can be rather adamant and uncompromising at times. Sometimes, he finds it difficult to get through to you due to that but either way he finds it charming. Like a rabbit that keeps forcing it's way through a tree without a burrow, instead of going around it. Determined, but "non threatening" haha. On bad days, he'll say you're slow or stubborn as a mule. On good days he'll be captivated by your beauty and childishness.
🪽 Gemini (°3,°15,°27) | 3rd House
You are lively and excitable in your partners eyes. He will see you as the most interesting and busy person in the room. He knows there is little to none that he can hide from you even if he tried. He trusts your opinions and likely thinks you are smarter than him and more knowledgeable in many aspects. He may think of you as loud and dramatic which could go both ways tbh, still I see it as mostly positive! Your reactions keep him alive even if he denies it. On bad days, he'll say you're overreacting, tiring, dramatic & sticking your nose up everyone's business. On good days, he'll say you're the most entertaining person in his world.
🪽 Cancer (°4,°16,°28) | 4th House
To your spouse, you feel like home. In his mind you are nurturing, instinctive way someone who notices when he’s tired, when something is wrong, you read his moods easily. You tend to evoke his protective instincts as well. He may see you as emotionally sensitive, moody and unstable at times. Sometimes he’ll feel like he has to handle you carefully because you can withdraw into yourself (or lash out) if you’re hurt. On good days he sees you as warm, affectionate, and deeply loyal. On difficult days he might think you’re overly reactive or a little too dependent on your feelings. Regardless, you become the person he instinctively turns to when he needs comfort or grounding. To rephrase a quote from certain a bird I like; "the outside is cold & blue, but you are that warm yellow light I come home to that's all mine."
If retrograde & in the 4th house he may think you are quite burdened with your family even through marriage.
🪽 Leo (°5,°17,°29) | 5th House
Through his eyes, you have a grand personality that is impossible to ignore. There’s something theatrical about the way you express yourself with him dramatic in a charming way, playful, expressive, and full of life. He sees you as someone who enjoys being adored. Your reactions, laughter, excitement, even your annoyance can feel larger than life to him which always has a way to make him laugh or brighten his mood. At times he might see you as a bit proud or stubborn when your feelings are involved, especially if you feel unappreciated. But the same pride is what makes him admire you. You make the relationship feel exciting, romantic, and alive. On good days, you’re charming and vibrant, someone who brings passion and joy into the relationship. On bad days, he'll say you are too shallow, childish, dramatic & more concerned about appearances.
🪽 Virgo (°6,°18) | 6th House
To your spouse , you’re someone who takes care of things seriously. There is no person that works harder and cares more intently in his life than you. You are mindful and practical, notices how attentive you are to details, how you remember the small preferences he has, or how you instinctively try to make life run more smoothly. Still, sometimes he may feel like you analyze situations too much or worry about things that don’t seem like a big deal to him. You can come across as particular about how things should be done, especially when you believe it’s the most efficient or sensible way. On good days he sees you as dependable, diligent and thoughtful, someone who genuinely wants the best for both of you. On more tense days he might feel like you’re nitpicking, selfish, fussy or trying to fix problems that don’t exist. Either way, he recognizes that your intentions usually come from a place of care. He may worry about you a lot in retrograde.
🪽 Libra (°7,°19) | 7th House
To him, you embody the idea of a partner. There’s something about you that feels naturally suited to being in a relationship you’re diplomatic, patient and aware of how your actions affect him. He often sees you as charming and socially graceful, someone who knows how to smooth over tension and keep interactions pleasant. Because of that, he might occasionally feel like you weigh every situation too carefully, trying to measure who gave more or who compromised more. Still, he tends to see you as elegant and refined in both your looks and temperament. On good days he feels proud to have you beside him, as if the two of you simply “look right” together. On bad days he might think you’re a bit indecisive or overly concerned with keeping appearances. He sees you as part of him however.
🪽 Scorpio (°8,°20) | 8th House
Some with this placement tends to have spouses that feel guilty towards them, or feel that they have put a lot on your shoulders. Though if retrograde, it's usually that he feels more burdened with you. You see the worst side of him, his ehem demons of you will lmao that you keep under the rug from everyone else. You come across as perceptive, and strong. Usually also a sign of trauma bonding overtime (or it literally being the first thing you face in marriage). To him you’re loyal but also emotionally demanding. At times he may feel exposed around you, like there’s no real way to keep parts of himself hidden. On good days, he sees you as powerful, magnetic, and emotionally fearless. On harder days, he'll say your overwhelming & gets irritated easily. The problem though, is usually him. Either way, he knows you've become someone who changes him, whether he intended for that to happen or not.
Ex: Both my mother and Miley Cyrus have Briede in the 8th house in their GPCs. I know my father's remorseful of how he used to give my mother a hard time in their first decade of marriage. He always says, there really isn't any other woman as strong or that'll be as kind and resilient as her. Mom has Briede in Capricorn 3° Gemini in the 8th. Miley's is retrograde, and judging from what we know went down with her ex husband that very much seems like the case, no?
🪽 Sagittarius (°9,°21) | 9th House
In many ways, your spouse may see you as someone both smarter, well educated and more capable than him. He trusts your intuition and your thoughts as you always have a way to convince him through reason. You teach him to be more aware of what he's doing. You challenge him, and help him evolve mentally. He may feel that with you, his life and surrounding improves. On good days, he sees you as wise, insightful, and inspiring. Someone who broadens his world and makes him feel like there’s always something new to learn or experience together. On more difficult days, he might feel like you’re lecturing him or trying to correct the way he thinks. Your strong convictions can sometimes make him feel like he’s being judged or measured against your standards of what is “right” or “logical.” His personal preacher, haha.
🪽 Capricorn (°10,°22) | 10th House
Your spouse thinks of you as a capable and independent person, you don't lose your sense of purpose or your principals for what success should be even after years of marriage. Your spouse thinks of you as the strongest, most persistent person he has ever met. He thinks of you as quite strict as well, especially when it comes to your household, job and family. You are reliable, and you ground him. On bad occasions, he'll think you are stuck up and self righteous, pushy, controlling and dry. "Too independent to be married". On good days, he'll think he owes you a lot of credit on his life, or that he'll lose structure and motive without you. You push him to limits, and thus to his best.
🪽 Aquarius (°11,°23) | 11th House
To him, there really is no one else like you; his best friend and soulmate. Mayhaps to him, you were someone he once wished for, a dream come true even. You are supportive of him and his actions, his ideas and passions and think highly (well) of him. He may have learned to look to your for support somewhere along the lines of your marriage (though if the asteroid is retrograde, you are often the one looking for his help). You are weird and unabashedly yourself and he knows it, he finds that you see each other on the same level of both humor and ideas most of the time. With interests that either compliment or mirror one another.
🪽 Pisces (°12,°24) | 12th House
Your husband sees you as someone out of this world. In many ways, you prove to be an ideal spouse and woman (partner) regardless of what "perfect" looks like. This, he tends to idealise you most. This could go both ways as well, for instance your spouse may only keep his eyes glued to this image of you which if you notice it may feel inclined to uphold that. To continue being that version for your spouse's adoration. On the other hand, he may see you as easy and susceptible. Taking advantage of your strengths. Being around you gives him the illusion that he can do more. On the bright side, he is in awe of you and finds your charisma and personality extraordinary. Down side however, he may feel he has you all figured out and in the palm of his hands. May even take you for granted.
Ex: Beyoncé & Audrey Hepburn both have Briede in Pisces in their groom persona charts. Reading through many articles, their husbands mostly put them on a pedestal. The same pedestal used to take them for granted.
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Marriage becomes a central part of how he defines himself. Being a husband gives him confidence and an image to uphold. However, he may become overly focused on asserting his authority or proving himself.
To him you are radiant and confident. He tends to see you as someone with a clear identity and a sense of direction. You might appear confident, self-assured, or simply very you. Because of that, he often treats you with a certain respect or attentiveness, as if your individuality deserves recognition. Much of his character is reflected within you too.
Marriage makes him more vulnerable & a little more passive. Growing into quite the homebody or ball of affection towards you and the kids especially. For some, he may feel like he's sort of becoming his mother; mirroring what she used to do.
In his perception, you appear sensitive, nurturing, and emotionally expressive, even if you try not to show it openly. Your moods tend to affect him more than anything. It's either he makes you take responsibility over his feelings, or you are a guide to how he shapes himself emotionally after marriage (and that you bare resemblance to a mother figure in his life).
Marriage makes him more communicative. It may also bring out his inner child and curiousity, given his freedom to do so. He may learn to be quite the inquisitor as well lmao.
He often notices how you think, how you speak, and the way you explain things. You may appear witty, observant, or very articulate from his perspective. Conversations with you tend to stick in his memory because you say things in ways that make him think. He may learn to copy or mirror you intellectually. Your jokes and interest also intertwine. It could also be that he thinks of you as intelligent.
Marriage makes him kinder, as years past he finds a way to be both a more pleasant person and a lover. He can learn to be quite patient and more conscious of his presentability.
He thinks of you as kind, beautiful and mesmerizing. Your spouse may think of you as his muse as well. You may appear charming, graceful, or simply very easy to love.
He may gain some sort of.. vigor through mariage lol. He can become faster, a little more arrogant and competitive with age and marriage. Could range from adapting a more masculine approach to marriage and raising a family (hello military themed items) to being a bit of a prick in his later years.
He thinks of you as energetic and strong, but can think of you as rather pushy and scary as well lol. He finds you passionate and invigorating, someone who brings life and excitement into the relationship but then again he may think of you as quick to anger and confrontational.
He takes your marriage seriously that's for sure. He could grow to be rather dry compared to the person he was in the past, assuming himself to a higher standard now that in his mind, he has to. He may feel like he's turning into his father or a father figure in his life as well.
You appear serious and significant in his life. He may view you as someone mature, composed, or emotionally reserved. Someone that keeps themselves together and wears the pants in the house. He might think you can be rather heartless at times due to how strict you can be however. Though, not always bad there's always a reason.
He may feel that marriage makes him both smarter, and mature than he was. In fact, marriage lifts the veil of stagnancy allowing him to grow mentally and emotionally. He may feel like marriage is somewhat of a lesson to him.
To your spouse, you are uplifting and encouraging. Always generous, optimistic, or someone who expands his perspective. He often feels like being around you improves his mood or his outlook on life.
He may feel rather detached from you and the relationship, often leaning towards idealistic visions about how your relationship should look like according to his desire. A master puppeteer on one hand, a compelling lover on the other. . "I hope you win for best actor"
He may also thinks you are rather detached for him, or too good for him to some degree as well. You are compassionate, artistic and by all means may be rather altruistic as well.
He remains a lot of the person he way prior to marriage, tends to act on his own whims & accord as well. He may feel somewhat disorganized, and unsure how to take care of himself at times (meaning he can be very inconsistent with himself and what he really wants).
You are very different from him, but that seems to be a highlight of your personality rather than anything else. He’s excited by how unique you are and feels stimulated by the unexpected energy you bring. He knows that you are independent and are not one to stick to restrictions. To him, you are one of a kind.
Marriage forces him out of his shell. He can be rather ruthless and quite controlling at times if he feels he needs to. Can turn rather emotionally reactive as well. He may feel like for some reason, he always has to play bad cop.
You can feel overwhelming or too much for him sometimes. He sees you as a powerful, and terrifying person at the same time.
Marriage gives him more to overthink about than usual. He may be feel rather overworked as a spouse, or that being married brings him more trouble than not. He may feel unfit to be a spouse or a lover, or even bare any titles that come with being a spouse.
I haven't seen much of this occuring in my available data base, but from what I do have; He thinks of you as rather fragile, and "flawed". He may develop somewhat of a savior complex with you as well. He feels you are to hard on yourself.
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He may feel like parts of himself have to shrink or change to keep the relationship stable. Because of that, he can become very aware of how he’s perceived in the marriage and whether he’s living up to the role properly.
He may butt heads with you a lot. To him, you don't easily fall into the role he expected from a partner. Whatever that image may be. Because of that, he can sometimes feel like he has to assert himself more strongly around you, especially when he feels like his position or decisions are being questioned. (Though it's also possible that he often surrenders to you as well).
Sometimes he may find himself struggling with the emotional expectations that come with sharing a life together, especially when feelings have to be addressed instead of ignored. He can get irritated easily, or too invested in himself than anyone else.
At times he may feel like your emotional reactions are difficult to predict & manage. It keeps him on his toes trying to make sure he doesn't upset or offend you in a way, which can make him feel unsure about how to comfort or approach you sometimes. He may not know how to handle emotional situations in the first place. It can make him hesitant to act freely at times, because he’s always calculating how you might respond to what he does, taking everything to heart.
Marriage makes him an over thinker & more nitpicky. Small misunderstandings can stay on his mind longer than they should because he keeps trying to analyze what was meant. Can turn obsessive mentally as well , whether that is proving himself right or believing everyone else is just incompetent.
You may question things he says or challenge his reasoning more directly than he’s used to. Because of that, he can sometimes feel like he has to defend his thoughts or explain himself often. He can find you rather difficult to converse with sometimes.
His love can feel rather artificial or "constructed" as a performance rather than actual love. He can turn into someone rather conditional when it comes to both his affections and judgements.
He thinks you are a very particular person. He think that you expect him to the lover or a partner perfectly catered to you in a way, seeing him as a canvas to build into someone else. He may also feel that he might never fully get it “right” in your eyes.
Marriage brings out a more defensive side of him. When disagreements happen, he may feel like he has to stand his ground rather than step back. Stubbornness of the highest order.
Though not always bad, he can find you to be both confrontational and controlling. Self restraining, but not one to be tested.
He can be overly strict and demanding, though conversely he may detest the may he has to sustain and suppress himself to be a spouse, feeling more burdened with both himself (expectations) or being a responsible spouse in the first place. He may feel like he lacks authority as well.
You might come across as serious or hard to impress, which can make him feel like he has to prove himself. He may think you carry too much burden, or are constantly judging him as well.
He may overextend himself. As a husband , he'll have this internal standard pushing him to want more, that he’s supposed to provide more, achieve more, or build a bigger life than before. At times he may feel like he’s being pushed into a role that requires constant growth or success but tend to not act towards any of them in hindsight.
You can come across as someone who sees bigger possibilities for him than he sees for himself. Because of that, he might occasionally feel pressured to live up to the vision you seem to have of what he could become.
He may feel rather invisible & unneeded or that or literally be absent for some.
He may overlook you, there may also be moments where he struggles to fully understand what you’re feeling or what you want from him. You can come across as mysterious or emotionally distant at times, even if that isn’t your intention.
Even if he cares deeply about the relationship, there are moments where the structure of married life feels restrictive to him. He may catch himself questioning whether he’s still able to live the way he wants or make decisions freely.
He may feel that you are rather dependant on him, like you rely on him to make decisions, provide stability, or manage things he thinks you could handle yourself. It can make him feel both responsible and frustrated.
There is a part of him that will feel very burdened with his image and the responsibilities that come with a spouse. He may think that just just not cut out for it sometimes, due to the sacrifices he has to make. He could feel like no one listens to him without the use of violence or some version of abrasiveness.
He may be rather scared of you, knowing what you can become if pushed to your limits.
With him being someone’s husband, it may trigger fears about not being good enough or not meeting expectations. Being incredibly hard on himself but may snap on those around him as well.
Being around you can poke at his old insecurities. Certain ways you act or what you expect can make him feel like he’s not enough or like he’s repeating mistakes he’s made before. He may see a lot of trouble in your past as well, being a burden for both of you if left unmanaged.
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