I've been #listening to #TonyRobbins #UltimateEdge via his #Breakthroughapp, it certainly delivers He mentioned how they convinced someone that #communism was better than #democracy How? By influencing the person's identity It wasn't forceful, they just made clever questions. Does everyone have a job in democracy? No. Well in communism everyone does Tony was saying how what we BELIEVE we are, we become, even if we don't truly believe it. I guess this is how they recruit terrorists too.. Why? Because we are consistent I noticed saying myself 'I am selfish', even though I truly know that I am not. People very close to me would know how generous I can be with my time, or thoughtful actions My mind raced, looking for the moment I started believing that Voila. Xmas 2018. I didn't want to fly home I felt I was a bad daughter, a bad sister. I cried my eyeballs in the office so much, that the lady from the canteen kept asking me for 6 months if I was ok, as my eyes were so red I asked 'permission' from a #family member 'not to go' 'It has to come from your heart' Well I don't have it in me. I don't want to 😞 The 2 previous years I sacrificed 5 weeks of holidays to be in hospitals, my energy, my money. No problem But it offended me that I was expected to also be a deep cleaner. 'This isn't a holiday. You are not here to 'go to the spa' I only went to the spa for 3h. Ever since, my family takes the mickey, saying they are going to the spa, if I went to the pub that would be acceptable 🙄 It's a slap in the face, hence why I simply didn't want to go. I didn't want to be an ATM, a cleaner. It was my holiday time and I wanted to relax There I started believing I was selfish, therefore acted like one I even caught myself saying that to someone. And that someone believed me, then I felt I had to justify that I wasn't selfish How twisted is that? Tony invites us to ask 'Who am I'? Well let's start with the obvious. When I see, read, or hear something useful that I learnt, I want to share it. This is what vowtoimprove is all about I wished someone told me certain things earlier, hence why my aim is always to share the knowledge (at Brighton and Hove) https://www.instagram.com/p/CCb_nXzH9Ij/?igshid=qahuzcmxwuw8
