#breakthebonds

Is there someone in your life that you can’t seem to break away from? Do they keep intruding in your sanctuary or causing undue anxiety? Maybe they were once a friend, a co-worker, a neighbor, a lover but the bond you have now is unhealthy and damaging. It’s time to let it go, to severe what ties you together. 

1. Find two candles of any color and carve your name into one and the other person’s name into the other or signify which candle is whose with symbols or other words.

2. Take a piece of twine, string, thread etc and tie a candle on each end. I recommend using something you aren’t attached to and is easy to break/cut. Also be aware of how close to your wick the string is because it can catch on fire, use caution always!

3. Light both candles and recite the following spell 3 times. While growing confident in what you want as you repeat it each time visualize the anxiety, pain, and negativity this person has caused you dissipating. It may also help to visualize chains breaking.

*this can be modified to encompass different relationships, more people, deities etc* *bonus: Create a sigil of protection and fold it into a heart by your candle to create an amulet to protect you from that person’s attempt to reestablish the bond*

4. Let the candles burn out (safely) or as close to nothing as you can get it. Once it is out you can dispose of the debris in the garbage, bury it, flush it (within reason) or whatever you normally do with spell materials.

THE THINGS THEY DON’T TELL YOU ABOUT BREAK THROUGH 1. RELEASE AND LET GO 

Letting go of things you would like to hold on to 

A. When the only thing holding you back from a breakthrough is not letting go of something that looks good but may in fact be toxic i. Have you ever met someone or worked on something and that situation be a really good and you feel like it’s right but it actually could be the thing preventing you from getting to the right thing. ii. But no one tells of the pain of letting it go. No one talks about why lots why turned back and turned to the Piller of salt. Did she have a friend or next door neighbor that was a nice woman they were besties did laundry on the line each day shared food to make dinner went to the market together and laughed about there husband’s together. What if she turn back because she was concerned about that friend well being and that person family because she saw no wrong and had a heart for people so for a split second she looked back for a friend. 2. HOW DO YOU LET GO I have had to experience this part of you know you have to go but you know you have to break it off. I cried and wrote a public apology after telling her I couldn’t do it any more we had words we repaired it but then it just had to go. See if you don’t let it go god will do it for you he snatch it away weather you want him to or not he does for your own good you won’t do it so he does it for you he needs for you to know this because some people you know and even love • Family • Friends • Co-workers They seem to mean you no harm but if they walk with you into that next season there mouth will sabotage everything you are trying to build because they speak death or negativity over it creating a harder spiritual fight then you thought or would have had to go through had you. Let god have this and let go so he can bless you with what you asking for so who you going to choose Your answer needs to be good all the way. 

You’re a leader 

Not a follower above and not beneath. 

Walk like the child of God you are. 

Grow