#brandon hoff

that one part in the flashback scene of lee interrogating brandon where he speaks of angel w their deadname and u can see lee start to contemplate and ruminate on past interactions . and then when he's done and brandon shuts up he says "nothing you have said has changed my mind in the slightest" . how do i express that characters learning about their love interests being genderqueer and still having feelings for them + accepting their identity is so so important to me without becoming Violent ,