time for another reminder it seems
i’m not white and i don’t fw race play, i don’t want unsolicited nudes sent to me, i dont want rape or blackmail threats as ‘flirting’, i don’t send nudes to random strangers in my dms and i don’t like degradation as an opening message (‘hi tits’, ‘hi cunt’, ‘you’re pathetic’)
it’s frustrating that i have a pinned post explicitly saying please don’t speak to me like this and people do it anyway. getting upset when i tell you no thank you this isn’t something i consent to or enjoy, please enjoy it with someone else and not in my dms, is bizarre behaviour. i’m not yucking your yums, i just don’t want to participate.
posting about kneeling, submitting and obeying or being a pet recreationally for people i trust to keep me safe and who respect those boundaries isn’t just open consent for everyone who thinks it might be fun to hold my leash to say whatever they want to me and demand i hand it over.