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What I'm getting from these comments is to "just do it"

I always thought hard work was a transaction, a guarantee that, combined with persistence, success will be achieved. I also thought positive thoughts, affirmations, faith in the possibility of your dreams, was a transaction in and of itself. A self-fulfilling prophecy, if you will. Unavoidable even. After doing all the research, following the exact steps of others in the exact sequence, doing everything "right" for all my life... I have learned that THAT is still not a transaction, a "do this, so this WILL happen". Doing things out of fear, choosing the safe path, is not a transaction for a safe outcome. And people who choose things willy-nilly, have an equal chance of stumbling onto luck, success, abundance... than those who plan meticulously to make the right choice. No, people who choose willy-nilly might even have MORE of a chance at attaining success just for the mere fact that they have not drowned the idea in overthinking, planning, rules, doing everything right. Maybe in just having fun and enjoying life, they always come out on top, because is something really a failure if you enjoyed your way there? Wasn't that just a good life? One cannot receive with a closed hand, but everything I've ever held has claw marks on them. It felt good to say I am like a Pit Bull, when I take on a project I never let go. I don't know why we, as humans, try to earn our way through life, when earning and deservedness doesn't truly exist. I cannot earn my worth, I just am worthy. I cannot earn being deserving, I just am. Like a tree or a rock, I just exist, with nothing to prove. Though I have been trying to earn my place in the world. To prove I am good enough, smart enough, hard working enough... But I have already, always, just been enough. It's kind of stupid if you think about it. I have attained nothing for my striving. I cannot show what I have built in any regard. Only I know how much I poured into what I was hoping to achieve. And because only I knew, and I couldn't prove anything to anybody, and I stood ashamed. In fact, not only did I not gain anything from striving, I have lost. Lost so much time that I could have rested, had fun, spent time with my dog... My entire life was on hold because I was building, striving, persisting, and THEN, eventually, in the future, I was allowed joy, peace, happiness. I wanted to prove myself to others, so I worked myself to death, so that I could eventually have confidence in who I was. I would be SOMEBODY, only when I had achieved these things. But what if I had it the wrong way around altogether... What if, I started where I was supposed to end, with rest, with joy, with happiness. What if THAT lead me to an idea, a purpose, something I would do "just for fun", and then it wouldn't matter what people would think of it, because I would be enjoying it. The confidence, the "being somebody" would be there by default because I would just be having fun, right? Outside voices saying I am lazy, stupid, unorganised... for not having any result to show for my work that they never saw me put in in the first place, would not matter, because I would be the one approving this idea first. Validating it just for existing. Participating in my life just because it's mine, not to prove anything or be productive. What if that was the idea that brought the abundance? What if the "work" I put into it would feel like alignment, authenticity, flow... It probably would be exactly the project that would make me feel alive, which if I think about it, was the ultimate goal of all my "boss babe - striving". Once I attained the money, the mansion, the traveling, that was my way of attaining "feeling alive". But what if I could have aaaall of that... if I would only allow myself to rest? 08/07/2026

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Anything for my pretty little house husband!