ARC Review of "Sex Positive" by Brooklyn Rose (5 Stars)
Original Goodreads review here: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8755072596
After a frustratingly LONG string of books which I liked but didnāt love, I was thrilled to finally review a genuine 5-star read that I loved right from the first page. I received a complimentary advance reader of this book (thank you to the author, btw) and for once I could not WAIT to share my thoughts about it.
I loved this book. LOVED IT. It was like reading Consent Porn, which should *absolutely* be a romance subgenre. Best of allāand this was wildly exciting to meāthe male love interest GETS TESTED FOR STIs/STDs before starting a sexual relationship with the female main character, Charlie. Like, WHAT. I was in heaven with the way sexual heath education was built directly into this novel in the most natural way ever.
Before I write another word, though, I want to make it as clear as possible that this book is āWokeā with a capital W. And, because it is āwokeā, that means it is chock full of information I wish Iād had growing up, back when my life choices were 100% guided by the editors of Cosmo Magazine, my fellow idiot teenage friends, and whatever bare bones information I got from sex ed classes, paired with the minimal womenās healthcare I could afford to seek out on my own. I was, to put it simply, the opposite of āwokeā, i.e. NOT fully informed or āawakeā.
For some people, I am aware that it feels like a personal attack (or morally wrong) to read a book that normalizes young women having access to medical information/treatment for their own bodies. If that is you, PLEASE DO NOT PICK UP THIS BOOK. The plot revolves around saving a clinic that offers sexual-related health care to members of the local community, including students at the local university. If this ideaāor the idea of a sex-positive festival hosted in a park where the public can see it happening (including any children who could hypothetically walk by and see it)āmakes you feel upset or uncomfortable in ANY WAY, then you will hate every moment of reading this, and itās gonna be a bad time for everyone.
If youāve read what I just wrote and thought, āWell, actually, it WOULD have been nice for me to have a safe space to go for sexual health checkups and general gynecological needs (such as overly heavy periods) when I was youngerā AND you like angsty longing AND you like intelligent characters learning to speak up for themselves and advocate for their own needs AND you like people making damn sure they have *spoken* consent before crossing even one single line, then you may be the exact audience this book.
My absolute favorite aspect of this book was the way that the MMC asked the FMC for consent at literally every turn⦠AND HE MADE IT SUPER SEXY TO DO SO. Like, it was literally foreplay?? To which I say, āAmen!ā Usually during romance novels that have a āteaching the innocent partner about sexā plots, itās an older person (typically a man) dominating/ordering around the younger person (usually a woman) and telling her what to do in a really forceful way, like, āStare in my eyes, donāt you DARE look awayā etc.
Iāve never really loved that, and now I know why⦠after reading about a couple who actually just *communicated* as they learned/taught one another what they liked, I realized that for me, this was just totally **chefās kiss**. 10/10 never going back to the ābossy silver foxā dynamic that Iāve never really loved (however, if thatās your happy place, please do not let my personal preferences āyuckā your āyumā!).
If this becomes a series, I will enthusiastically read the next book, and this is now officially the first romance book I will recommend to ANY woman in her 20s who asks me for a romance recommendation. Please, please, PLEASE can we get more informative yet steamy/entertaining books about sex and positive relationships published and out into the world!!!
PS: I read literally 100+ books per year, and I canāt remember the last time I felt this enthusiastic about an author, let alone a brand new debut author. 5 stars from me is a genuine 5 stars from a real, *very* picky expert reader who truly loved what she just read. My tastes may differ from yours, but this is not a fluff review in ANY way. This author deserves a MAJOR publishing deal (if thatās what she wants), because this book deserves to land in the hands of as many young women as possible. I hope BookTok discovers it and makes it go viral.











