#bladder issues

you fkn diaper kinkers wouldn't last a day in our shoes, and you know it

you've no idea what it's like to just be out living your life and you're suddenly covered in piss, and you don't even notice until someone else points it out

TW! Medical care, controversial takes on treatment plans

DISCLAIMER: I am not anti birth control. If it works for you, that's great! If you doctor thinks it will help you, and you think it will help you, you should try it! Everyone has a right to make decisions about their healthcare and give INFORMED consent to the treatment that they think is best for them. The decisions I make about my treatment may be completely different than the decisions you make about your treatment, and that's okay! You do you, I'll do me. That being said, anyone who attacks me in the comments for my take will be blocked.

Doctor: I think you should try birth control.

Me: No thanks. I have a complicated family history with birth control, and I just got my mental health and body image stabilized and I don't want to risk destabilizing that. What are my other options?

Doctor: You shouldn't be afraid of birth control. It's a standard treatment. There aren't really any risks with trying it, even at a young age. Now, some people gain a weight they can't lose, experience mental health issues and mood swings and need mental health medications to combat that, or experience more pain later in rare cases. But it won't impact your future fertility at all! It's basically risk free

*crickets*

Me: *adds to the mental count of times I've been blatantly gaslit and lied to by medical professionals*

Me: So...I'm still not comfortable trying birth control. I'm setting that as a boundary and it's not open to discussion. What are my other treatment options?

I’ve tried visual reminders, step by step visuals to wipe better, but nothing has worked.

I didn’t think I would do this, but, Im gonna try out full time panty liners or incontinence pads.

-wetting themselves out of sheer, unadulterated fear

-wetting the bed after a nightmare

-utis are very fun (i have them all the time. They are not)

-being conditioned/forced to only use the bathroom is whumper allows it (bonus if that bad habit carries over to caretaker) (double bonus is whumpees too ashamed to even ask)

-whumper watching them go every time because they have to make sure whumpee wont escape

-Having a weak bladder/borderline incontinence because of whumpers tortue

-Medical and catheter stuff, if youre into that

I really need help so can your followers help?

This is a bit of a odd one and if you're not comfortable actually answering on the post my inbox always has anon set on so you can send it there and this anon will see it.