Cis men will always prove the ideals I have surrounding them. I no longer date them or interact and they are still a threat. They will always be a perceived threat.
This is the second time I've been threatened by a man in regards to my dog. Not including the times I've been stared down by men for just walking by with my dog. Warranted crash outs? Maybe. It pisses me off too when people let their dogs do whatever and shit everywhere. Warranted threats to my life and well being? Never
These interactions are not including the countless times I have been threatened or harassed by just existing or attempting to protect someone.
One man threatened to pull a gun on me and kill my dog if he ever got loose and was around his house again? First ever time seeing this man or my dog ever getting loose and straying that far from home. (My dog never free roams, anytime he has been out around the neighborhood he ran and I'm promptly trying to get him back)
I walked away hyperventilating and stressed.
Second man threatened me with his dog that he apparently keeps in a basement. Saying "I have a dog I literally keep in the basement what if I would let him loose?" Then called me outside of my name and continued to threaten me periodically by going in and out of his home... as I was cleaning up the shit... Okay
The second interaction I walked away with a smile.
Men don't know how to express anger and properly channel it therefore they will always be a threat and justify their actions because of their anger. Well she should have.. and if she didn't ... And she denied me so .. and....
It's funny to me how men threaten you as a way to control. They do this to their children too if they speak to perceived women like this. Women who react aggressively are/have been 9x out of 10 influenced by men.... Because if you look at statistics it's rare for a woman to be combatant/a threat to your safety unless influenced by a man (in childhood or adulthood) , or mental illness.
I'm not justifying my actions or my dogs but things happen and sometimes you have to let them happen, learn from it and move on. Not threaten someone with physical harm to get a point across.
Men need help, I worry for gay men and straight/bisexual women honestly..
No my dog shouldn't have been shitting in your yard, sometimes he just squats. If I pull him he is shitting everywhere. I can't really control it. But we shall try harder.
No, my dog shouldnt have been free roaming around the neighborhood, his recall was and still is shit. That doesn't excuse the fact that I.. a person. Should not have been threatened with a gun multiple times.
I get it I need to have better control over my dog, I agree. Does that justify your actions?
