apparently there’s new discourse about straight women not wanting to date bisexual men and like look you don’t have to date anyone you don’t want to for whatever reason. that’s always been the case and it always will be. i just can’t wrap my head around the why of it all.
bisexual men are into women. definitionally. that’s what that word means; they are attracted to men and women. that means that, ostensibly, if they want to date you, a straight woman, they are into you. no ifs ands or buts. why does them having a potential sexual or relationship history with men change that? to me, this is no different than being insecure about your boyfriend’s really hot ex girlfriend, except now there’s the sprinkle of homophobia since the thought of your boyfriend sucking dick or taking it up the ass gives you the ick.
speaking as a gay man who has dated bisexual men i can say for sure that the most i’ve felt about it was mild curiosity about his experience, and otherwise i didn’t give a shit. i truly think that if you have any stronger of a reaction than that, positive or negative, you are a weirdo and should probably interrogate that about yourself.
