Jun 8, 2024
Remember, us adoptees don't stay babies forever. We grow up. Every decision you make will come bite you in the ass later or affect the adoptee. See us as future adults you have to explain yourselves to.
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Remember, us adoptees don't stay babies forever. We grow up. Every decision you make will come bite you in the ass later or affect the adoptee. See us as future adults you have to explain yourselves to.
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Y’all my birth mother sent this to me 5 days after my birthday! Why did I never see it? Why is this so cute? Not the Morticia and Gomez gif 🥺 sometimes it really makes sense that we’re related. But it’s just not time for her to be in my life again yet.
I know I havent posted In almost a year I needed a break. Life has been hard these past few weeks but this amazing guy has been my rock thru everything.
dark presence-today’s poem de jour-from “surrendering to transcendence” and my eulogy for MomAdele
abandonment’s despair
hides helplessness
painfully powerless
separation terrifies
laments longingly
cosmically wounded
silently screaming
nears nothingness
embraces emptiness
risks trusting
darkly hoping
silently sustained
cosmically connected
whispers wholeness
passionately present
achingly open
divinely delivered
image: The Sea The Art of Emptiness - Seagulls; Poetry and Photography of Kavi Jezzie Hockaday -
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Why
Has all of this emotion come back right now, at 10:13 PM, on a random Monday night. I guess I didn't realize how consumed with depression I've been the past month. Dealing with terminal illnesses in my family (dad), rejection from a graduate school, postponing graduation and my thesis, and just his feeling of emptiness... I guess it has taken its toll. I'm feeling empty and lost- directionless and unmotivated. I need support. But I'm too hard headed to ask anyone for help, especially those who love me. I'm wandering in this shit storm alone, for now. But I'm reaching for help. I had a dream about my son last night His parents asked me to come pick him up from somewhere and I couldn't show up or be there for him. I woke up and didn't understand.
I gave birth to you. I loved you first. I love you still. I always have and I always will.
Just a reminder.
1. Stop using adoptees in abortion debates.
2. Stop sharing the fact you've adopted and the child's story.
3. Adoption isn't the answer to abortion. Many kids are available for adoption and aren't adopted. We need more health care benefits not adoptions.
4. Adoptive parents shouldn't be seen as saviors. We shouldn't be made to feel grateful.
5. Stop it with the child to grow up to ne the next Lebron James, Steve Jobs, cure for cancer. All of these things require resources and a dedicated family. A child born into certain circumstances will have a harder time just getting a basic education. Also, Simone Biles shouldn't be made the face of adoption or foster care. Being adopted by your rich /parents grandparents doesn't represent all of us adoptees. It's rare in foster care. If her parents weren't rich, they wouldn't be able to afford gymnastics as, from what I was told, many foster parents aren't rich. So, using Simone as some kind of argument against abortion and for adoption is gross. Her family simply had the resources to afford such an expensive sport that has nothing to do with adoption. Plus she's with family not strangers. That's different. Plenty of kids currently in foster care many people don't care about.
6. The system is broken. Adoption doesn't mean better life. Some adoptees were abused or even rehomed aka disrupted from their adoptive homes. Many kids enter foster care and go from home to home until aging out. Some adoptees don't have good relationships with their adoptive parents. It's not a one size fits all.
7. Adoption is hard work for both sides. The adoptee and the adopted parent. It's not all sunshine and rainbows. I often feel I'm not good enough. I'm getting married soon and I have doubts of being a good wife and even if I'll be a good mom. Sometimes I don't like being adopted because it was something I didn't chose and it explains why I'm a control freak. Adoption leaves a huge hole in your heart and soul. My own birth mom didn't want me and that will never change. As I get older, it only gets harder.